Comments | mystcbrd: stalker returns

mystcbrd

stalker returns

Sep 09, 2010 13:29

I am sending both of you this letter. It has been more than a year since my world crashed down, in part because the two of you. I realize fully that he was more at fault than the two of you, but you are still at fault. I have tried to rebuild my life this past year, I have tried to look at a man who didn’t give a shit about me, our marriage or our ( Read more... )

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shadrone September 9 2010, 18:40:58 UTC

Dear crazy lady,
Threatning my girlfriend is not acceptable. Deal with your issues in your own space. If you feel you need to come talk to someone, you are welcome to come speak to me personally, face to face.

bamabytch2010 September 10 2010, 14:51:39 UTC

I have no issues with talking to anyone face to face. I would love to sit down with anyone and everyone involved and get this all resolved in a reasonable manner. Thats all Ive ever asked for, but after a year of not getting anywhere, basically begging people to just tell me the truth (which dont you think I do deserve?) it gets very hard to deal with. I am dealing with my issues with the people who caused them. I didnt do anything to deserve any of this..so why should I be the only one dealing with it? I only want answers..thats all Ive ever wanted, thats all I ever will want. Its not that difficult, its the RIGHT thing to do.

mystcbrd September 10 2010, 18:48:05 UTC

we have talked before. I was completely honest with you.
I have nothing to hide. I saw your husband and he spoke over all well of you. He drank his beer and left.
I did not fuck your man nor would i want to.

He did not cheat on you with me.

And no matter how many times or desperately you want to be the martyr and I the Roman soldier.Those aren't my nails.

this truth will not change no matter how many times you ask. It is what it is ...so deal with it.

shadrone September 10 2010, 20:41:31 UTC

I'll reply privately.

bamabytch2010 September 10 2010, 20:02:35 UTC

I do believe deep down that he didnt cheat with you (I think he did with the other one, not you)..what I try to find and keep begging for in mostly the wrong ways, is the friendship. I dont mean to harass anyone or be mean to anyone, although I know you will never believe it but theres still just so many questions that swirls in my head about the friendship outside the club. That is what I am scared of. I cry almost everyday, I am trying to deal with it but without knowing about the friendship that was obviously there since you invited him to the going away party puts me in a bad position because I hear what he says and it doesnt make sense to me. I know your tried of dealing it and believe me so am I. I would love to wake up and not have this fear inside me anymore. All Im trying to do is figure out what went on, what kind of friendship there was, what lies he is still telling me so I can make my own decisions on what to do about the marriage. I left it alone for a long time hoping it would just go away and it eats at me until ( ... )

mystcbrd September 10 2010, 20:10:08 UTC

we were not good friends. I never saw him out of the club. Ever. He discussed I should meet you and we all should hang out. It never happened as you know.

I know to well what it is to be betrayed. And i would never to that to anyone.

I wish you happiness and wellness.. but I cannot/ will not deal with this anymore.

bamabytch2010 September 10 2010, 20:06:24 UTC

Like I said I will stop contacting. I have to be an adult and learn when I have fought a loosing battle. I hope you never find yourself in the situation that I am in Its hell. Best of luck to you.