Posted this on bolt, but wanted my friends opinions

[mystere_girl]

Ok so my engagement party is coming up in feb!!!Im inviting everyones kids Im very excited, now Ty (my fiance) has 9 nieces and Nephews, all which are good apart from one ( i can handle him). But the problem isnt with them (im allowed to tell them off if they do something bad) It's my cousin

Comments

[setonvibrate]

No, I don't think it's rude or bad of you to ask them not to bring those children. I wouldn't want them at my party either. It's your event, you don't have to please everyone. So please don't invite those kids. You can invite your cousin and her man if you feel like it but not the kids. Hell, I wouldn't even invite her and her man because they're both wimpy parents. (No offence to your cousin.) That little girl needs her butt whooped. And she's only 4 years old?! Damn...that just tells you what she's been around and learned and no one is correcting her so she's going to continue to act that way. She's got a bad attitude, she's rude and mean, she pushes other kids for fun and bullies people. She's a bit sadistic too. No way in hell would I let a child like that at my event/party.

[xopink_heartsox]

no, i dont think its rude. people just need to learn how to raise kids these days. that is just SO messed up!!! I just can't believe that. i like so want to cry because someone would raise their children to be such brats! NO! DONT let them kids come!! and if they have to say anything just tell them. they cant come until they learn to treat the people and things in my house with respect!

[whirlgigs]

You know what....if she's not going to play nicely AND no one is going to do anything about it NO of course she shouldn't come. Tell them that she can come when she's willing to share, be polite and they're willing to deal with her. She's not your kid and it shouldn't be up to you to discipline her or watch over her. You have your own child. :-/ I'm sorry it went so hard. Poor Ethan.