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Apr 16, 2024 23:42

have you ever had the experience of going awol on literally everyone you know and when you start to pull out of it you feel like there is no way anyone is going to even want to hear from you ( Read more... )

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orlando_switch April 17 2024, 10:54:42 UTC

I always LOVE hearing from you, regardless of what kind of headspace you are in! And I am also not very visible at LJ at the moment, so no worries about that

But I do feel sorry for you that you got caught up in the old family dynamics without wanting to get back into your old role. It is my personal nightmare as well when this happens. And yes, find ways to meet people who see and value the real you and who understand your jokes and your personality and all your funny quirks. I am so sorry I am so far away and can't hang out with you, but if you ever think a Zoom session would be helpful, do not hesitate to contact me!

I also relate with you about not knowing the amount of family members but in my case, it's a generation further away and it concerns the children of my cousins. But I meet them so rarely that I don't care :D

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mywitch April 18 2024, 04:41:18 UTC
ORLANDO! I've missed you, friend. Thank you so much for your kind and understanding words.
Family, ugh! Wonderful and horrible at the same time. How can that be. We should totally do a zoom call, that would be a blast! 💗

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orlando_switch April 20 2024, 21:35:59 UTC

You are absolutely so welcome! And I missed you too, life is so much funnier with you in it, even if your family won't see that. And I still don't know if family is a gift or a curse...

And yes, let's arrange a zoom call! What is our current time difference? It's daylight saving time here, so GMT +2.

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mywitch August 11 2024, 07:23:43 UTC

Friend! I am such a dumbass American I don't know how to figure out the time zone. I googled it and I guess I am at GMT -7 so I really have no clue lol
Still would love to chat with you, if you can work out a convenient time. I am pretty free and kind of a night owl if that helps :D

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hbartthe2nd April 17 2024, 12:23:25 UTC

Facts:

Don Snoreleone, Lol! I’ve not heard that one, but sounds like it is appropriate.

If you move here, I will pet sit for you any time.

I will ALWAYS want to hear from you. Any time, any day, in any way. No exceptions. I really do mean ANY way, However, sky writing is a lost art, so if you choose that means of communication, it gets you bonus points. But no pressure. 😀

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mywitch April 18 2024, 04:42:57 UTC
Also - The Nodfather

I am definitely moving next door. That would be wild. Maybe you could get me a job at the retail store that must not be named! lol

I am saving up for a skywriting plane and skywriting plane lessons. Also writing lessons.
Big hugs to you my friend. Thanks for always being there for me. 💚

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hbartthe2nd April 18 2024, 22:05:38 UTC

Well, all homes are full, so you can join the house with the 70 something couple and their cats or the house with half a dozen 20 something men who like to do yardwork. You can’t go wrong either way.

I’m so pleased you plan to take up sky writing. It definitely seems like a reasonable and affordable hobby.

All the hugs right back at you! 💜

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mywitch April 19 2024, 07:03:10 UTC

I was thinking the exact same thing - either house will do just fine! lol

I only take on the safest and dreariest hobbies. Must I take the plane out again?

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lash_larue April 17 2024, 12:47:21 UTC

While I cannot speak for your blood relations, (I could, really, but they don't need to know that. Yet.) I do know that everyone hear loves you.

L

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mywitch April 18 2024, 04:43:45 UTC
Thanks Lash! I appreciate your kind words and veiled threats! I look at my book often and honest to merlin it helps every time! 🖤

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francinehibiscu April 17 2024, 13:04:12 UTC
Love you miss you no clue where you are!!

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mywitch April 18 2024, 04:44:54 UTC
Speaking of missing things - HAPPY LATE BIRTHDAY my dear!!! I hope it went exactly as you hoped! I love you and miss you too and I am pretty sure you are in a bathtub full of Calgon after last week :D

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shaded_paradox April 17 2024, 15:30:37 UTC

Hi there! *big hug!* Happy to see that you posted as I've been thinking about you and wondering how you are doing. Sorry that you are feeling stressed, but hopefully once you get your trailer all fixed up and ready to live in, all that family induced stress will be gone ^_^ Hang in there my friend! <333

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mywitch April 18 2024, 04:46:52 UTC
Thank you so much T! I hope things are going all right with your family ❤️
I do look forward to the trailer getting more finished. My main issue is trying to train my cats to wear these little vests so they can be on a leash and I can take them there more easily. Maybe catnip would help... hmmmm 🤔

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shaded_paradox April 19 2024, 21:42:06 UTC

Sounds challenging to leash train the cats. Wishing you success with it, and lots of patience >^.^<

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