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mywoogie

Deep Thought

Feb 18, 2009 15:57

On Monday, after I dropped T off from our exciting night of watching BSG (one day we might be caught up to the rest of the world!!), Dante called me up and informed me that one of our friend's marriages was breaking up, but who's would shock me. I know it is horrible to say, but Dante and I have often had opinions on our friend's relationships and ( Read more... )

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catawhorl February 19 2009, 07:10:00 UTC

Part of this is Social Structure, and very Victorian in aspect. Private stuff stayed private... lol you didnt even really talk about your privates either.

We have moved away from some of that but Yah we really dont want to be seen as *human* in our failing marrage, we have to keep the good face on things and make sure that we have the nice house, good wife/husband, 2.5 happy clone children. Ect.

Reality does set in though, we do figh, we have pms, men get grumpy and tired from their jobs and we are all not fucking perfect. Too many people go into debt, and loose their marrages trying to hide all the crap that life deals them. Instead of just trying to be happy and maybe have a bit less *Stuff*. I wish people would remember, that NOT getting married is an option too.

just the thoughts your thoughts bubbled up in me... LOL

lady_deborah February 19 2009, 19:00:15 UTC

Hey... I also have been informed of the recent news about this. I haven't heard any specifics on either side, but I must say when I heard both Matt and I were truly stunned, saddened and shocked. I much like you only saw them maybe once a year at our Halloween party and they seemed to be very-very happy in their marriage and with each other. We've never been super close to them so we never heard of any rumblings when things were/are tough ( ... )

mywoogie February 19 2009, 20:45:54 UTC

I had times where I was pretty damn close to him. Hell, Dante and I even had considered at one time making them Ray's Godparents (if we ever got him baptized) We haven't been too close since we moved, but I guess that is what happens sometimes. Of course, now we are getting a bit more info from both of them, so I can kind of see what is going on ( ... )