funny...i was in california with my boyfriend at the same time and we ended up breaking up too. anyway i can totally sympathize because although it hurts (and was especially painful for the first few days because it was mostly his decision) i also feel like it is probably for the best b/c i don't think i can promise him the type of commitment he wants (among other things, of course). how are you doing the friends thing? we both were really good friends originally and want to be able to transition back to that stage but it seems like it's going to be hard (maybe more so for him than me because he has always been sure of his feelings since this started whereas i've been the chronic doubter).
It's hard at first. One of the weirdest/hardest things for me was hearing him call me my name and not ending a phone conversation with an I love you. We always called each other babe and hearing him say viky was different. We still talk every other day or so and see what the other is up to, but the phone calls are shorter. It's a weird transition but it gets easier with time. The first week I really couldn't talk to him without breaking down and crying on the phone or immediately after we hung up. I'm doing better now and so is he. I think keeping busy helps, so whenever you do talk it can never be for too long and you can just talk about whatever is going on in your life as opposed to reminiscing about your relationship.
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