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[naeva]

I'm having a hard time understanding men. are they really all cold callous assholes? i don't even know anymore.

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[mysticalpsion]

now there's a multidimensional question

what's up... been awhile :P.

[w3nders]

I've come to the conclusion that all men are douchey or have been at one point. Every male I've interacted with, every male I've dated, even my own male friends are fucking douche bags. Even my own boy friend can be a prick.

So yes, I think men are fucking piss offs.

PS I feel like a feminazi right now

[mysticalpsion]

perhaps there's a tendency to be living outside the emotional plane, therefore we spend less time thinking about the emotional consequences of our words. Words have a way of piercing people in more ways then one, especially when one allows the bearer to come close.

Though i do agree, there is a high amount of the male gender who spend most of their time being assholes simply due to a lack of desire to cultivate emotive qualities, i could blame society but that would just be putting the blame outside the hands of the individuals.

Sorry that was so long :)... any particular reason for this realization?

[naeva]

i've always had way more guy friend than girl friends. i just never really knew how to be girly. so to me, girls always seemed like backstabbing bitches, and guys always seemed easy to get along with and funny. and hot. but lately i'm sort of seeing the other side of the coin... how men totally objectify women and how we seem to be a complete joke to them.
so.. i guess its fair to say that i'm nursing a feminazi phase right now.

[naeva]

for instance. i went to a show the other night. punk show. and there was this crazy drunk girl moshing out as hard as any of the guys out there. and they were just being assholes and openly mocking her. i got so mad i had to leave.

[wedahr]

I like to think that's not the case but I seem to be outnumbered.

[mysticalpsion]

not quite... that cat seems to take major precedence :P