After over four years of not talking to them...
They decide to just show up in our lives and think everything is a-okay?
Three visits from them this week, well four since they came by twice yesterday, and the only thought I had has been, "why?" I don't want them to bother us any more then I want my eldest daughter's paternal family bothering us. Yes, it's a bother because they've done shit for us, never treated us like family, and now they want back into our lives after I kicked them out of it. Pft, I'm not a forgiving person I guess but frankly what my brother did to our mother is not forgivable in my book. Ultimately it's my mother's decision if she wants him back in her life by as far as I'm concerned I don't need my brother, sister-in-law, nephews or grand-nieces and grand-nephews. I don't want anything from them and I don't care how rich my maternal or paternal families are, their money is just that, theirs and frankly I could careless for it. The only money I care about it the one money we make from our own business.
Just leave us alone. Yeesh, no wonder why mom left her state, changed her name and went into hiding. What a pain my brother is about "our" family.
Three visits from them this week, well four since they came by twice yesterday, and the only thought I had has been, "why?" I don't want them to bother us any more then I want my eldest daughter's paternal family bothering us. Yes, it's a bother because they've done shit for us, never treated us like family, and now they want back into our lives after I kicked them out of it. Pft, I'm not a forgiving person I guess but frankly what my brother did to our mother is not forgivable in my book. Ultimately it's my mother's decision if she wants him back in her life by as far as I'm concerned I don't need my brother, sister-in-law, nephews or grand-nieces and grand-nephews. I don't want anything from them and I don't care how rich my maternal or paternal families are, their money is just that, theirs and frankly I could careless for it. The only money I care about it the one money we make from our own business.
Just leave us alone. Yeesh, no wonder why mom left her state, changed her name and went into hiding. What a pain my brother is about "our" family.