we're the pirates who don't do anythingjilly2496December 4 2003, 18:37:02 UTC
im surprised you are updating. pssssssh. i think that a grave is more a symbol of the person after they are gone. you go to someone's grave to ... i don't know, talk to them- i don't know its weird to visit someone's grave. but i agree, i would rather say goodbye to an actual body. but i think sometimes graves are nice, just to visit. ya. i love you. and you can whine to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i'd rather say goodbye to the body. graves are good for memorial purposes and to visit. i think decorating a grave is something respectful done to show you haven't forgotten the person. also, alot of people believe that the ones they love walk among us and can "look down" on us. so, i guess visiting a grave shows them how much you care. if my husband or something died in the future, i would probably visit the grave everyday. not because i'd expect him to be there, but it would be the closest thing to visiting him.
i've never been to the grave of any loved one i lost. it's not the same. maybe one day, but not to say goodbye. it sounds stupid, but i think saying goodbye to the sunset of their favorite place or even just to the sky is better than saying goodbye to a grave.
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i think that a grave is more a symbol of the person after they are gone. you go to someone's grave to ... i don't know, talk to them- i don't know its weird to visit someone's grave. but i agree, i would rather say goodbye to an actual body. but i think sometimes graves are nice, just to visit. ya. i love you. and you can whine to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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if my husband or something died in the future, i would probably visit the grave everyday. not because i'd expect him to be there, but it would be the closest thing to visiting him.
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i love you so much.
-nick
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