my brother's reply. Welcome to A-holeville

Jun 23, 2009 15:28

This was my brother's response to my letter. I could use some support ( Read more... )

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ethereal_lad June 23 2009, 23:25:17 UTC
I'm sorry about this. You don't need people like this in your life. And what kind of 'moral' person uses such nasty, hateful, crude language?

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rae_la_fai June 23 2009, 23:51:24 UTC
First of all, what is he trying to prove? What moral, righteous ground does he have to stand on? I thought Rastas were all about love and acceptance, not some alternative cover for the right end. I can't imagine how hurt you must be right now, and I am so sorry you had to receive this from family. Know that what this may be is a gift of freedom from the need to create relationship where clearly none can exist. I love you and my thoughts are with you both, that you both find peace and acceptance on the other side of so much pain.

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johnnythecub June 24 2009, 07:19:03 UTC
Baby, baby, homegirl of my heart. I have tears in my eyeballs from how much your relative eats where he shits. I'm sorry to be so crass, but his hypocrisy is so sad and his mind-set is very very transphobic.

You need you and you need the people who love you and support you the most right now. You are fucking gorgeous INSIDE and out. You ARE a gorgeous woman, you have told me for so long in so many ways and you have shown me in so many ways that you can't be anything but AMAZING.

Gurl, I love calling you that! Keep checking it. I run up against daily struggles, so will you. One thing I know, though. We are meant to survive and bring hope to others and inspire those around us.

Please call me anytime and visit anytime in the bay, you have crash space and my full attention. 530-521-9149

I love you and your bravery.

Johnny

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odelenu June 24 2009, 08:42:31 UTC
I'm sorry you are having to deal with this. I hope that you are able to move forward and let go of the past hurts from family. Your brother is clearly on his own path and is firm in his Rastafarian beliefs, let him have them and do your best to move on.

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