(It's Lady/iSparrow from ff.net, in case you don't recognize me. ^^')
I'm in no position to give advice, but I do like reading/understanding people and their actions, so it seems to me that he obviously doesn't understand how much you're hurting over this. If you're as close as you've described - and I believe it - then I doubt he'd do something to make you feel upset, so he probably doesn't realize he's hurting your feelings by seeming to be more excited to meet your friends than he is to reunite with you.
If you don't know if he's interested in you, there's really not much you can do without, as you said, making things really uncomfortable for the both of you on the chance that he doesn't feel the same way.
Have you talked about your other girl friend a lot? Maybe he's just heard good things about her from you and wanted to meet her. It could be one of those "Ah, so you're the one who did thus-and-so that [Natoya] was telling me about
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Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. That's a possibility. He does tend to do that sometimes. Yeah, I really don't want to lose our friendship. It would be horrible. I do mention the things me and my friends do every now and then, so that could be it, and I'd really hope it was. Thanks! *huggles* I'm happy to know you trust me like that. And thank you so much for that. I really didn't think of it that way. He did say he missed me and wanted to come and see me. Thanks so much Sparrow. *huggles tight*
Yes, boys are messy and complicated and gross. Unfortunately we tend to fall for them. Hard. But that's okay, because I'm a goofball and I like screwing with their heads in return. -shot-
You're absolutely welcome; I just thought I'd offer a different viewpoint, and I'm glad it helped. Sometimes we just need a friend to remind us of how lovable we are, with or without a boy. ;) -big hugs back-
Also, I've been thinking about writing one of those puzzleshipping vampire fics. I've got a framework laid out and everything. Must say, your "DD" was part of the inspiration. ^^
Thank you for the advice, I appreciate it. This thing with him is long over with now. I have decided just to remain friends with him. He had told me he never meant to lead me on, so I'm assuming I never had a chance to begin with, but that's okay. I will find someone better. ^^
Thanks Cassie. *glomps* He still confuses me at times, but I'm working on letting it go and just seeing where this takes us. I'm not going to lie; if he found a girlfriend, I'd be pretty hurt, but I will just take it as a we're not meant to be and hopefully someday soon I'll find the one just for me. ^^ And don't worry, I don't mind the story. I'm sorry that happened to you. *huggles*
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I'm in no position to give advice, but I do like reading/understanding people and their actions, so it seems to me that he obviously doesn't understand how much you're hurting over this. If you're as close as you've described - and I believe it - then I doubt he'd do something to make you feel upset, so he probably doesn't realize he's hurting your feelings by seeming to be more excited to meet your friends than he is to reunite with you.
If you don't know if he's interested in you, there's really not much you can do without, as you said, making things really uncomfortable for the both of you on the chance that he doesn't feel the same way.
Have you talked about your other girl friend a lot? Maybe he's just heard good things about her from you and wanted to meet her. It could be one of those "Ah, so you're the one who did thus-and-so that [Natoya] was telling me about ( ... )
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Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. That's a possibility. He does tend to do that sometimes. Yeah, I really don't want to lose our friendship. It would be horrible. I do mention the things me and my friends do every now and then, so that could be it, and I'd really hope it was. Thanks! *huggles* I'm happy to know you trust me like that. And thank you so much for that. I really didn't think of it that way. He did say he missed me and wanted to come and see me. Thanks so much Sparrow. *huggles tight*
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Yes, boys are messy and complicated and gross. Unfortunately we tend to fall for them. Hard. But that's okay, because I'm a goofball and I like screwing with their heads in return. -shot-
You're absolutely welcome; I just thought I'd offer a different viewpoint, and I'm glad it helped. Sometimes we just need a friend to remind us of how lovable we are, with or without a boy. ;) -big hugs back-
Also, I've been thinking about writing one of those puzzleshipping vampire fics. I've got a framework laid out and everything. Must say, your "DD" was part of the inspiration. ^^
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So true also. *huggles*
Oooo, puzzleshipping vampire?! I love those! XD Aw, really!? *glomps* Cool! Thank you! Hee hee, glad to be part of someone's inspiration! =D
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