Comments | nattida: a general survey, pls comment!

nattida

a general survey, pls comment!

Mar 02, 2007 00:05

would you rather:

be in jail for 30 years and then be released, or be free for 30 and then in prison for the rest of your life?

love and lose or not love at all?

be blind or deaf?

be ugly and rich, or beautiful and poor?

modest (100K/year for 4 people) family life or luxurious (1,000,000 just you, net after expenses) life alone?

have 5 truly close ( Read more... )

Comments 11

sahn March 2 2007, 08:40:03 UTC

"judge a girl (or guy) negatively if they slept with you on the first date? (ie; is their having sex with you the single factor in deciding that they are not "relationship" material after the first date?)"

Ehh? I can't imagine that being a negative thing.

hmmmm nattida March 2 2007, 19:10:58 UTC

well from what i've heard this is the case... girl who sleeps with guy on first date < relationship material/girl to take home to mom = slut.

Re: hmmmm sahn March 2 2007, 21:15:53 UTC

Lots of guys want sluts.

Guy who wants slut = bad boy.
Guy who wants girl to take home to mom = momma's boy.
Don't girls usually want bad boys?

But seriously... it takes two to tango. If a girl slept with me on the first date, that means I slept with her on the first date, and it would be hypocritical of me to judge her negatively for that. I don't really think sleeping with someone on first date really affects whether or not a person decides the other person is relationship material. If you're relationship material, you're relationship material whether or not you sleep with the other person and if you're not relationship material, then you're not relationship material whether or not you sleep with the other person. The "problem", if you can call it that, is that people will often sleep with another person who isn't relationship material, and that (depending on your perspective) might not be such a good situation to be in. And who knows... for other people it might be the perfect situation.

dswildfire March 2 2007, 20:03:28 UTC

prison for the end
love and lose
deaf
beautiful and poor
modest
5 truly close friends
anorexic
addicted to sex
impactful
movies
approach and ask out
cancel livejournal
no
it would have to be huge, like in a time travel paradox save the universe sort of way

i have reasons for all of these but the comment would be way too long if i went into them here

anonymous March 3 2007, 02:57:53 UTC

veggies first, then dessert. so, 30 years, then freedom please ( ... )

sahn March 3 2007, 05:34:43 UTC

free for 30
love and lose
deaf
ugly and rich
modest
modest
significant other
... coin toss
sex
rich
movies
if it's a girl that I might like, then I'd rather the girl love me. if it's a girl I know I wouldn't like, then I rather ask one out.
cancel myspace
no
no

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nattida March 6 2007, 06:55:09 UTC

love is unattractive? oh. so. true. but only (obviously) if you do not reciprocate but yeah, someone who you do not love, being in love with you, is unattractive. wow. ::wondering how many times i've been unattractive:: + i like ur user name.