I don't understand, and I don't know how to take the short route.

[naughty_kitty9]

I don't understand (rationally, logically) why I should be bothered/hurt by things I cannot change...

But I am. And I do. And its' that bitter, twisting, poisoning hurt snake that eats; I'd take the good old fashioned maddened thunderstorm anyday.

...Nor do I understand why whining about it should make it better.

Go figure.

Comments

[neogoddess]

I completely know what you mean. I obsess over things I can't change constantly, and the reason I do it is because I have no control over the situations, and it will freakin' drive me insane. I'm actually in a situation right now that I have no control over, and I think it's giving me stomach ulsers.

As for the whining, I do that for a while, but people get tired of it really quickly, so I just refrain and obsess to myself. hehe

Hang in there *hugs*

[naughty_kitty9]

Yeah...all of that.

What happens when you can't quit obsession, I wonder?

[neogoddess]

I'm still trying to figure that one out. My mom says I obsess over things more than anyone she knows. Mine comes from my stupid insecurities mostly, and I'm scared I'll never get over those :(

[thepeajay]

What happens when you can't quit an obsession