Did you get that thing I sent you?...Ha ha.

[ndrest0230]

I have a question:

Is it better to know people are talking about you behind your back?

or

Is it better to know no one is talking about you?

Comments

[jorge0123]

I think it's better to not know because ignorance is bliss

[ndrest0230]

What if they don't talk about you because they didn't care about you or they don't care that you are there.

[goddesscomplex]

But... in knowing that no one is talking about me, wouldn't someone have to be talking about me in order for me to get that information?

[ndrest0230]

I'm thinking a little bit deeper than that. It's more along the lines of feeling that no one cares about you or remembers that you exist. The other side of the question would be more along the lines of people knowing you exist but wanting you to disappear or not exist.

They are both negative, but which one could you live with.

You don't have to wait for some to tell you, it's how you feel.

[goddesscomplex]

Both are, indeed, negative. I think, though, that I would prefer the first. When I'm up, and can remember that I am an arrogant biatch, the confidence to 'fill in the blank' is easily attainable. One thing -you- should remember, though, is that when the feeling like that; like the first, may be the strongest is when you do things like this... LJ post and have people like me, who don't know you from Adam, actually give a damn enough to respond.

I care. Want it?