Shower question...

[nea0613]

Is it wrong to have a baby shower for baby #2? If yes, why and if no why. Any help would be appreciated.

Comments

[_yourgypsy]

I don't think it's wrong. :)

[mandalee]

i don't think so either, especially if you're going to have a boy. can't have him in girlie clothes!!

[nea0613]

This is one of the reasons I was thinking it was ok. :)

[neuraltube]

I like what this article says--

http://www.parents.com/articles/pregnancy/1105.jsp?page=2

I personally wouldn't be all that comfortable with a full-blown shower, but I'm "conservative" like that. :-)

[summerbluerain]

I think you should have one for both babies :) How will you explain to the second one why the first one got a shower and he/sehd didn't?

[wynoah]

I don't think the baby will care. I know I'm baby #2 and I don't care! :P

[nea0613]

Well, I'm baby #1 and I have NO idea if my mom had showers for either of us. Assuming I never tell the kids, it WOULD be fine, but I have the whole boy/girl issue, since I have a girl what if I have a boy? Just thoughts. Some stuff can still be used, cause there was A LOT of neutral stuff bought for Bianca..and yeah.

[wynoah]

It just reminds me of my friend, Patty, who bought a house, had a house warming party and everyone gave her gifts, and then moved into a second house 2 years later and had another party with people giving her gifts. In my opinion, I wouldn’t have one. I’d just ask for some for Holidays/birthdays.

[forbiddenpluto]

I say no big deal especially if the next one is a boy!!! People probably won't be as generous, however, you'll be an expert on the registry this time around!

[nea0613]

And I'll know EXACTLY what I need and what's useless...plus a lot of the stuff we still have. Mostly if it was a boy I would need CLOTHES!! That's all! Enough for the first year and a baby book, cause he deserves his own..even though I've done SHIT on Bianca's. :) I love to procrastinate! :)