Comments | nelena_diskai: When God needed another angel...

nelena_diskai

When God needed another angel...

Dec 25, 2005 23:26

My granduncle died yesterday morning, right at the morning of christmas eve, leaving his wife and their son to have the saddest christmas they every had. He had heart attack a one or two weeks ago and was in coma every since. He was 70 years old when he died. His body just gave up yesterday ( Read more... )

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shira_seskai December 26 2005, 13:18:17 UTC

Your mom is a very strong-spirited and brave person, someone you are proud and happy to know in person. Knowing that she came to you at night, crying, makes my cry, too.

What that nurse said to your grandmother is just wonderful and in my eyes... she was a kind of angel herself.

I hope that one day, there are enough angels living here on this world, that there are no more needed in heaven before x-mas.

*winghugs*

nelena_diskai December 27 2005, 08:42:01 UTC

Thank you so much hon *huggles and nods* Seeing my mother cry is always very difficult for me for the same reason you just said. She's always strong for her loved ones. But on the other hand I'm somehow happy that she came to me at that time... it makes me feel a lil better that I could help her a bit somehow.

And yes, this nurse really was an angel. Usually you never know what to tell someone in my grandma's situation but she just knew the right thing. Every time I think about this sentence now it makes me wanna cry out of sadness but also out of happiness... it's weird.

Let's hope about this. Taking a loved one away from his family just right before a family holiday like christmas just sound cruel to me :(

auradeva December 26 2005, 17:53:31 UTC

((HUG)) I'll sending some Christmas payers their way and yours.

nelena_diskai December 27 2005, 08:43:21 UTC

*huggles tightly* Thank you so much hon!!

cynic667 December 26 2005, 18:45:08 UTC

Hm... eigentlich wollte ich mich nun mal eine Zeit von der Bildfläche fernhalten, aber ich denke sowas ist ein gerechtfertigter Grund das ich mich doch frühzetig melde: ich kann es nachvollziehen wenn du taurig bist, die Jahreszeit tut ihr übriges dazu ( ... )

nelena_diskai December 27 2005, 08:54:41 UTC

*nick* Ja, ich denke die Jahreszeit und die Tatsache, dass es gerade heilig Abend war verstärkt die Trauer natürlich noch umsomehr. Bei Familienfeiertagen vermisst man ein fehlendes Familienmitglied natürlich umso mehr. Du hast natürlich recht mit der Gewissheit... das schlimme ist nur, dass es einige Zeit so aussah als würde es wieder besser werden... die Organe funktionierten größtenteils alle wieder, aber er wurde einfach nichtmehr richtig wach aus dem Koma, bis der Arzt dann am 24. seinen Tod feststellte ( ... )