Midlife crisis?

[nemireth]

People say, "you are a beautiful woman, Rita. You are so strong, you lived such an interesting life." But at the edge of 35 when my boobs firmly point downwards and my face is covered with wrinkles, after 6 years of a meaningful relationship with just one man, is it wrong to want to know that I'm just a pretty girl? Not an amazing woman, not a

Comments

[ariaberaht]

No, there's nothing wrong with that. *hugs*

[eireann8]

Not a thing wrong with that. *hugs*

[crashingwaves38]

I think it's perfectly natural. We always have aspects of ourselves that feel neglected or ignored by others at various points for various reasons. When sexuality is such a huge part of who you are, there are going to be times when you want that aspect of yourself to be recognized and acknowledged, just as there are times you want people to realize that you actually have a brain or can run 5 miles or whatever else.

[theshoelacearmy]

Ah, if only I was into girls and not just teasingly saying that I am. Yeah :). <3