Comments | nemish: on endings & transitions

nemish

on endings & transitions

Jul 03, 2007 04:18

So it has come to end of a relationship - my own. I am now a single man and it was a mutual decision based on respect for one another. We had grown apart and felt that it was no longer the place for either of us to be in. It began like any other conversation...albeit a bit more anxious. I have always been impressed with her maturity and feeling ( Read more... )

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gleefulfreak July 3 2007, 11:49:04 UTC

Congratulations on taking this step forward. It was clear from what I'd seen that you had been unhappy in the relationship as it stood and there was little chance of it becoming what you wanted. Now you're free to pursue what will really give you joy.

I continue to respect you both and am not interested in assigning blame at all; you two learned what you needed to learn from this relationship and it's time for you both to move on.

nemish July 3 2007, 15:16:37 UTC

Thank you

jamaru July 3 2007, 14:58:32 UTC

I too was in a relationship for 13 years, which ended less congenial than yours. But, I hooked up with someone far more compatible (and with a mighty beard) and I don't regret my decision. So, you may also find someone soon who will share a happy future with you. Good luck and best wishes.

nemish July 3 2007, 15:16:56 UTC

Thank you, too.

kaleekolai July 5 2007, 13:59:52 UTC

I kind of wish some of my relationships ended so well. It's nice when both people can be so mature and understanding. I still have a few exes that I keep in touch with and am on good terms with. It's so much better when it works out that way.

I didn't realize that you two had been together so long and am glad to hear that you're feeling so positive about this change. Sometimes change is good and healthy. :)

Sending you lots of positive energy going forward. I know you're going to be doing just fine no matter where the winds take you.