of assholes and standing up
PS:
Not that I've given significant thought to you or to this. But.
1. If I've wronged you in the past, this is not going to elicit an apology from me. I stand by most action I've made in the past for I did out of the best intentions for all parties involved. This includes the times I've hurt people and then did my best to make amends. If one can't forgive me for what I've done, it's probably their fault because I can't remember a time when I've acted with malice towards anyone. If I've made a mistake, it's your job to point it out to me there and then, and not mine to figure out what your vague references are days, weeks, years later.
2.You get to either: give me advice, insult me, or attack me one at a time. Doing more than one of these actions per passive-aggressive, ambiguous action not only makes you a mook, it makes you irrelevant.
3. You do not get to judge someone else's priviledge. You can assume what you like about their life, and you can think them arrogant for having problems even if you presume they have an easier time then you. You can do what you want, this is a free country. But do it to me, and I will never forgive you. Ever.
As for my assumed wealth, it was not accidental. It was worked for and earned over the course of 3 generations, started by my grandparents who fled literal slavery in Europe and Russia respectivel.
3. Normally, this would be the point where I ask "who are you?" and/or "who do you think you are?" But frankly, I don't care. I don't know if you'll read this, but I hope you do. I only talk to adults when they are going to talk me like an adult. But in your case, I've made an exception, especially for this statement: fuck you, and fuck off.
If you'd like to enlighten me with specific concerns about my life, I'm all ears. But I don't think you will ever, ever earn respect from me. But I'm sure you're too good for my respect, which I will lord over you all I like. For if you don't care if people respect you or not, you're not worth the water in your cells. My e-mail address is ebenau@gmail.net.