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Aug 20, 2003 11:30

having two siblings means you have to deal with two different character all the time. I know that my brother is temperamental, clumsy and careless, and my sisteris selfish and bossy. But inside, they do have a pleasant personality. And I know for sure that I'm not perfect also, so it's no problem for me I guess. At least untill last week ( Read more... )

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disney_sea August 20 2003, 10:20:46 UTC

Be tough !!! i`ve read it all cuz I love reading ur posting *grins* Ohhhh u have 2 siblings.My brother I think is very same with ur sister.If he wants something,he must get it.He is very very stubborn and bcuz of something,he could cry.I don`t need to mention,what he cried for.Memang betul sih,kalau orang laen yang bayarkan bill kek electirc bill or phone bill kita nggak boleh gunakan sesuka hati kita,ada pertimbangan pertimbangan...ya tapi keknya lu kan bisa maen barenk-barenkan dengan sis??How old is she??she is older or younger than you??

Kalo kalian masak nice pake giliran,ya ambil inisiatif aza..sis loe yang masakin dulu n ntar pas giliran dia,ya loe ya masakin .. kan impas drpd kalian quarrel,kan nggak enak.

eniwei,she still ur sister. *HUGS*

Bossy....bossy....bossy..... lucienandalou August 21 2003, 04:48:11 UTC

Halo nya, I can understand how you feel. It's not a very nice feeling when people yell at you for something that you didn't do or be told what to do. It's not nice to yell to people after all, whatever it is. I know she is your sister and she pays some of the bills, but it doesn't mean that she can tell everybody in the house to follow her rules and do whatever she wants to do. I know people can be irrational sometimes and when it happens, you just have to calm down and think rationally. Don't yell back at her cause it's not gonna make things better. You just have to explain nicely but with a firm tone what you think about it. If she can't be the adult in the room, then someone have to. Don't let her think just because she pays the bill then she can do whatever she wants. You're still one of the family member that has voice to be heared. However, it's true that she is still your sister that needs your companion and support from you. That's why you have to try to negotiate things with her. If she can't understand what you're trying to ( ... )