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[nesmith]

I should really post here more often, whether LJ dying is a reality or not. Guess I don't have much to say these days and I haven't been really up to long things, so here's a post I made to Facebook back on Dec. 14th:

No sense keeping it a secret, not that it ever was; in the coming year, 2014, I will be moving out on my own (well, not alone, stmatthew is

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[valiha]

Sometimes it's just the way the dice roll. I certainly didn't expect not to be living on my own at this time of my life. You're ahead of me on the moving out front, because what savings I had dwindled as it became necessary to help family members, deal with health crises, pay off debts, and now that I'm a part timer, it's very difficult not to live on a month by month basis and build it up again.

I wish you all the best, and hope that you'll be able to find the kind of place you're looking for. Moving out is never an easy thing, no matter when it's done.

[junepath]

I think it's great you're moving into your own place! It is hard, I did it at 18 and I wish I had waited a little longer, but I didn't have anywhere else to go. But now at 31 I have a little bit better of a handle on things....sort of LOL.

I hate that LJ is dying. I have a lot to say but why bother if nobody is listening?

I always read though. It's easier these days, my friends list can go weeks before it goes off onto another page, the same 3-4 posts sitting there every time I check in. That's not how it used to be.

[nesmith]

I really need to. Most of it is needing to get away from my mom. I love her but I'm reaching a point where I need to get away from her while I'm still able to talk to her without screaming. We had some bad times last year when stress and her drinking led to some drama but there's always been tension since my dad died, and I think it's just that I've never lived away from her, and I really need to. It's not that she interferes with me or anything, but I live in her house and it's still HER house and HER rules and I'm just needing to get out on my own.

So when the world finally unfreezes and things bloom, so will I.