Comments | neth_dugan: I'm alive! Update on stuff and Pride

neth_dugan

I'm alive! Update on stuff and Pride

Jun 29, 2010 22:27

So, it has been pointed out to me, and I was realising myself, that though I've been around LJ on comms and commenting I haven't actually been on my own LJ nor checking my flist all that often. Not sure why just ended up that way.

And I realise there's something I didn't tell you guy properly that I figured out what I am, in a way. See I've wondered ( Read more... )

asexuality

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inkquillandhope June 29 2010, 22:16:10 UTC

I'm thrilled for you that you're figuring yourself out and you're happy :D

Mad love to ya lady

neth_dugan June 30 2010, 11:00:48 UTC

*g*

Thank! It's a pretty good feeling.

inkquillandhope July 2 2010, 07:30:04 UTC

I agree :D I've been on a great road of self discovery lately of my own and I'm loving every second of it

trialia June 29 2010, 22:45:14 UTC

*squishes* And now you know! And you're not alone :D this is shiny. I simplify a lot, but I essentially identify as homoromantic polyamorous asexual, if you want the precise labelling. *g*

Have fun at Pride!

neth_dugan June 30 2010, 00:04:19 UTC

I did not know you identified as Ace in any way. Cool! You on AVEN?

And yeah, any label simplifies it when it comes to this sort of thing. But it does give a ballpark fuzzy area lol.

trialia July 3 2010, 17:07:31 UTC

Yeah, I'm a member, but I don't visit very often. It's complicated, so I just generally introduce myself as lesbian, it saves me having to deliver Ace 101 to people - or Poly 101, for that matter. I'm so tired of feeling obliged to explain things about myself! *g*

True that! (I still haven't had a notification for this comment, btw :P)

neth_dugan July 3 2010, 22:57:21 UTC

In which case.... have some cake! *hands over AVEN cake*

taiteilija June 30 2010, 08:32:26 UTC

Hey, good to hear from you! *squishes* I'm so happy you sort-of found yourself :D I'm sure Pride is going to be amazing. Please do keep us updated, I'd love to hear about the parade.

neth_dugan June 30 2010, 11:00:17 UTC

There's plenty I still don't know, like what the hell I want to do with my life. But I'm happy I got this bit figured, and in doing so found a group of brilliant people on the forum.

I shall have pictures and video! Not sure if I'll hand the video over to the Hot Pieces of Ace (an Ace collab channel) people or just stick it on my own account directly but there shall be video.

There's more to come too, realised there's some stuff i meant to post but didn't. Some ages ago and some not too long back so..... couple posts coming up.

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neth_dugan July 1 2010, 03:05:22 UTC

It's a great place, it really is. And even if you aren't Ace there's people over there who aren't and joined for one reason or another. So yeah, feel free to go over, look around and join in - no need to feel you have to decide anything to do so and if the identity fits it fits, if it doesn't it doesn't.

One of the great places about it is that you can ask a question, any question, and somebody will answer it. Usually a few people at least. And you get some weird/very personal/graphic/completely off topic questions there too.

Btw, I'm bristrek87 on there, if you do go over and want somebody from LJ there too. There's others but me + names = not good even if they are the same.