*seriously stressed*

[midnytserenade]

Hey, I'm having problems, and strangely they aren't coming from PTSD like they normally do. Rather, they come from an ex who's trying to act as neurotic as I am.

He won't leave me alone. He gives me weepy-weepies all the time, such as this message he sent me earlier today (or rather a Christmas-ruining conversation on ms):

From: AJ

Comments

[wendeliz]

you aren't doing anything wrong.

when i broke up with my ex, i had to cut him out of my life compeltely, say i can't talk to you online or see you or anything. it was harsh, but necessary. sometimes when people are just too clingy and don't understand what's going on, you just have to stop talking to them. i know it sounds mean, but you have to take care of yourself. he is his own problem, if you must my advice would be to block him and just avoid him all together. nobody needs someone else's random drama.

anyway, i hope this helps.

good luck.

[maidenus]

Sorry I never got around to replying to this. D: I do try to reply to everything if I can.

And, yush, that is very helpfullness. :D

[kharma_creature]

thing is... some people hold onto hope - if you have no intentions of getting back together with him.. you shouldn't say things like.. "right away, or at least not for a number of years."

this almost sounds as if you "might" want him in the future.. so of course he is going to drive you nuts and try to get back into your life..

i agree with wendeliz.. if you don't want this type of attention.. you should - tell him so - and then block him from everything online.. completely ignore or delete what he sends you. i know it sounds harsh... but sometimes that's just what we have to do.

believe me.. there are people in my life/or rather not in my life anymore.. who have done it to me.. but i "get it" .. it's what they needed to deal, heal, and move on.. it's not fun .. but he'll eventually move on (hopefully).. but it's not your responsibility.. -i'm rambling aren't i?

goodluck <3

[maidenus]

Yeah, the problem is that he then goes to my friends demanding to know what's happened. He needs to get beaten up or something or maybe murdered. *laughs* wow first time I've ever said someone needs to get murdered.

Yeah. You're right. I'm trying to make it clear that I don't want to get back. It's hard because I'm too soft-hearted, so he goes and appeals to my pity and stuff. I hate it when people do that.

It's fine. I don't mind people rambling. :) That's why I'm on this site.

[kharma_creature]

wow.. that's a pretty strong emotion to have.. you might want to deal with that? wishing physical or any harm onto another person only poisons ourselves. <3