Comments | never_land23: HELP ME PLEASE!

never_land23

HELP ME PLEASE!

Aug 12, 2005 23:40

ok so I broke up with Erick. Why? I'm still trying to figure that out. I went to Disney World with him last week - spent the WHOLE week with him, I get back and I need my space. While at Disney every corner I took I could see images in my mind of 3 years ago, standing at that same spot with Ernie. WTF? Ok so I break down. I was just starting to be ( Read more... )

breaking down.

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anonymous August 13 2005, 04:02:26 UTC

well if you want time and you need space than thats your perogative, you make you happy worry about the rest later, if you need time to get over ernie than erick is gonna have to wait, if he loves you than he'll think your worth it.

butterymufkin August 13 2005, 08:13:35 UTC

I wish I could help you. But I'm in the same place. ♥

take a deep breath anonymous August 13 2005, 18:34:25 UTC

From what I read. You haven't closed the book on Ernie and moved onto someone else rather quick. It seems you are not doine or even started to heal from your past relationship. Being in a realtionship is hard work and you don't seem to be in that place right now. Yo may want to talk to someone professionally. If Erick loves you, he will wait for you and give you the space you need to have closure with. It is ok to be afraid, it is part of the growing process.
It wil be fine...just give yourself time.

thesweetestsin_ August 14 2005, 19:25:48 UTC

love you

Yeh Right... anonymous August 18 2005, 12:30:52 UTC

It's funny how people turn out when you haven't seen them in a long time. But frankly Im a little disappointed. You always struck me as a very independent person, and now you just seem lost and weak. You went from having something great suppossedly with ernie (which u dropped cause u were afraid), to having something great with this eric guy (which you dropped cause you were afraid and lol, you weren't over the other guy u dropped). Hate to say it but you kinda deserve this. I mean, my boyfriend has been through alot of shit and we've had our problems, and though at times I've been afraid of not knowing what was going to happen I still had faith. Something you seem to seriously lack. I feel sorry for you girl. You just don't know what you have till it's gone, and what's worse is that you hurt those who care for you. I don't tell you this to be mean, but to make you see clearly because it seems none of your friends have had the nerve to be honest with you about your unhappiness (and the fact that your the cause of it). I hope ( ... )

Re: Yeh Right... never_land23 August 18 2005, 17:02:57 UTC

oH i'm sorry, your right I am weak because I asked for help instead of just going with my gut. And I wasn't aware that I was here to impress you... Either way. This is something that has brought peace to my heart and the happiness I am looking for is something I cannot get from any person, just the Lord. Apperently I do have too much on my plate and well my heart is torn, but I have Faith that when I am ready God will provide and for now, I dont need anything else but him. But thanks for your comment.
Marii