You would think that as the years pass I would learn how to deal with my emotional life, that I would develop an approach -- a "game," if you will -- when it comes to men
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Sorry to hear that...if it's any consolation, it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. Sometimes things just get fucked up. Anyway, I'm looking forward to seeing you this weekend!
Step one clearly must be beaten with a stick. But you're improving I know - you've ditched the valet fantasies thanks to his un-appetizing world view. Soon, you'll be selecting lucky men who are actually Healthy for you! :D
As someone who's actually been on the other side of this kind of thing recently, all I can say is it's probably a much bigger deal in your own mind than it is in his. If he knows but you guys are obviously not suited for eachother, he's probably a little secretly flattered but otherwise thinks nothing of it. Having a crush certainly shouldn't be anything to be embarassed about. :)
...and yeah, I found out because she told a mutual friend in "confidence". It happens all the time.
On a completely unrelated note, can I count on seeing you at our show on Saturday? I'm trying to actually get some people to come this time around. Hehe... I understand if you're busy catching up with lots of friends. Just curious if you were still planning on coming out. :)
Unfortunately, yes. All bars around here seem to be pretty strict about carding. We'll be starting around 10 or 10:30. Good to finally get your name, Vina. Forgive me if I don't recognize you there but I only really have your LJ picture to go off of and I'm terrible with faces anyway. Please, be sure to introduce yourself. :)
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...and yeah, I found out because she told a mutual friend in "confidence". It happens all the time.
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What time?
BTW, my name is Vina (long "i").
I think I can get some of my friends to come along. Are they strict about carding?
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