I'm not quite sure what sense of "having sex" you mean. One sense that comes to mind is the experiences engendered by having certain physical characterists in a particular socio-cultural melieu. The other that comes to mind is just a euphemism for fucking - "having sex" doesn't make any literal sense when used that way. At the best, one could say the phrase was idiomatic. How we fuck is also mediated by the culture(s) of the participants.
So, to escape "having sex", are you asking what it means to fuck? Or asking about the mental pretzels we make when we say we are "having sex"?
Well, there's having sex, and then there's having sex..
Like... There's crazy animalistic sex, we're you're just fucking. Rough dirty, just trying to satisfy yourself physically. There's not much thought or feeling involved there.
And then there's slow, passionate sex, (which I often refer to as 'making love') where all you're concerned with is being close to the person you're with. All you want is to be as together with that person as possible, and as in sync with that person as is humanly possible.
Socially I'm a little confused on.. Are you talking about how you react socially after a good lay? Or how people perceive you after you've had a good lay (or a not so good lay)? Or both? Or something entirely different?
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So, to escape "having sex", are you asking what it means to fuck? Or asking about the mental pretzels we make when we say we are "having sex"?
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- and as a sidenote have been horny (in aforementioned manner) as all hell lately. Which I definitely attribute to fall a bit ;)
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how do you know rebecca...
and what is your agenda...
I think I know your plot.
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how do you know rebecca...
my agenda is that I love fall and words
my plot...of course to take over the world, I see you have found me out. damn.
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Like... There's crazy animalistic sex, we're you're just fucking. Rough dirty, just trying to satisfy yourself physically. There's not much thought or feeling involved there.
And then there's slow, passionate sex, (which I often refer to as 'making love') where all you're concerned with is being close to the person you're with. All you want is to be as together with that person as possible, and as in sync with that person as is humanly possible.
Socially I'm a little confused on.. Are you talking about how you react socially after a good lay? Or how people perceive you after you've had a good lay (or a not so good lay)? Or both? Or something entirely different?
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