and so it seems...

[nevisen]

I feel like a fool today. Does actions speak louder than words? Well today I found out that once again I appear to be let go. I got a pair of under wear and a t-shirt for xmass, for my birthday I got a card....for valentines day. I don't want to feel selfish. I feel like I am being selfish but it bothers me. This is my lover and it just seemed

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[ceremonious]

actions DEFINITELY speak louder than words. a way a person acts, especially if contradictive to what they are saying, can show you what's going on with them subconsciously. actions are very indicitive of what a person really feels about something.
for what it's worth, I think you are not selfish at all. your gf needs to be upfront about what's she's doing, and more importantly, what's she's feeling - you have a right to know! whether she tells you anything or not, you need to find out what's going on. good luck