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[nightingalelily]

A. freaked out over Christmas/New Years and decided to throw everything away the other day. So, no more relationship or friendship or anything. His best friend is also one of my friends and I guess she ripped him a new one over it too, so at least I'm not the only one who is confused over it. He said something about me not trusting him, which

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[lucyrachel]

Lean on your amazing friends. That's why they're your friends. You don't need to go through it alone.

I'm so sorry all this shit has hit the fan. But I know you can make it through. *hugs*

[nightingalelily]

Thank you. I know I can too, but I really just don't want to do this anymore, you know?

[lucyrachel]

Yeah...I'm sorry. :( Please try anyway...and I am rooting for you.

[lucyrachel]

Also, regarding your new friend: no, it won't get better or easier immediately. But it will get better eventually. I don't know if you mean he lost his wife to divorce, or to death, but my grandmother lost her husband (my grandfather) to death in a horrible way many years ago, and although it has continued to affect the rest of her life, she had a wonderful 18-year relationship later and got to have many wonderful experiences throughout the rest of her life.

I don't know if this kind of thing would be helpful for your friend to hear...maybe? Regardless, please remember that you aren't responsible for saving his life. Hopefully he will come to his senses, but if he doesn't, you've been there for him and that's as much as you can do.