To Move or Not to Move?

[nightrunner42]

I don't know if I have a place in the apartment right now. I'm not sure any of us do. Things went sour between Kevin and Kamil quickly, and dramatically. Kamil was in two car accidents in the last two days, and he was MIA for several hours yesterday and is no longer welcome in my life, or Kevin's. Kevin is staying in Colchester for the time being,

Comments

[warriorbard63]

Take heart. You have friends and family (both of blood and of choice) who love you and care for you, no matter what. This is a setback and a challenge that you can bear because you are stronger than you realize. Find the opportunity and don't be shy about asking for a little help when you need it. Gut Yul!

[greyladybast]

This!

[the_melegant]

You know most realtors will accept having a single person removed from a lease. If Kamil is the issue, maybe you and Kevin can find someone else to move in with you so you don't have to leave.

[greyladybast]

I don't know what to say to the situation itself, but if you need me at any time at all, please, call me! Email me if you don't have my cell number. I'll be home all day, wrapping and baking and cleaning, so I'll be available until around 5 this evening.

I'm sorry it went all pear-shaped. Few things suck more than when someone you care about (or even just like) does something stupid and hurtful, that you might be able to forgive, but you sure as hell can't get past or over or forget. You can't carry everyone else's burdens for them, and you've got to care for YOU. Some relationships are simply unsalvageable not matter what you do, and sometimes all trying to salvage is just too much. Letting go to protect yourself doesn't make you coldhearted. It just makes you human.

Beyond that, have some hugs, and more hugs, and a bunch of my Christmas happy for the day. I've got enough for a dozen people, and it's only 9 am! So please, take some holiday happy, and call me if you need me, and have another *HUG!*