[RL] Nika rants

[nika7]

Everyone has always had - and still has - certain expectations from me. I was the smart, bright and ambitious kid, the Golden Girl of my hometown.
I always had the highest grades (the school had suggested I skipped a school year, but my parents were against it), got the lead role in a musical two times, was one of the best dancers (sorry for the

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[pixisity]

Isn't that what LJ is supposed to be for? To get out your thoughts and feelings, no matter what they are. It's maybe not so easy when you don't do it often (like I do *sheepish smile*) but it's YOUR journal, so you can do as you like, ne.

There's no quick fix to it, but I guess the only thing you can do is do the best you can and that's all anyone can ask. As you're already doing that, then I don't see why anyone should be disappointed in you. <3

(I'm sorry there's not much else I can say, since it would sound empty; it's easier to tell someone to go see a professional than it is to actually DO something about it, ne. It's just not that easy, and since I really don't know you that well, I don't want to presume things and be patronising. I'm here tho if you ever need to rant or anything like that....)

*sends Maruyama with butterfly over to you*

[lolitaprincess]

Een vriendin van me heeft precies hetzelfde gehad en zij is wel naar de psycholoog gegaan (een psycholoog is voor dit soort emotionele dingen, de psychiater is voor als je echt geestelijk ziek bent en medicijnen nodig hebt) en het heeft haar wel erg geholpen. Niet alleen weet je dat diegene het nooit door zal vertellen ze kunnen je ook beter helpen en sturen omdat ze ervaring hebben en ervoor gestudeerd hebben. Vrienden kunnen naar je luisteren maar kunnen verder weinig doen (zoals ik zelf heb ervaren) omdat je niet weet of het diegene gaat helpen wat je zegt. Het is helemaal niet gek om op je 20ste langs te gaan, op de universiteit in Leiden stappen er jaarlijks 4000 studenten bij de psycholoog binnen dus dat wil toch wel iets zeggen

[neko3000]

Well, this is only what I think and probably someone would shoot me for what I'm going to say, but you should take less into consideration what others expect you to be. I'm not saying that being rude or selfish is good, but after all we have the chance to live just ONE life and so in this life we should pay attention to what WE would like to do/be first of all...
Some years ago I was really worried about the opinion of others, now I tend to not give a damn to what people I don't know/esteem think about me... and I found peace!
Also, seeing a psychiatrist isn't bad! It doesn't mean you are sick or something like that, it just means that you're going through a difficult time and that you need to consult someone who is surely more qualified than me about these matters!!
I hope you will find your own balance soon! I'm waiting for good news! ^__^
PS: Oh, yes, Jin's simplicity is just pure love <3