Don't I know it! lol I went through a lot of unhealthy relationships which have taught me to be grateful for this one.
But there is nothing wrong with being single or just dating around! It gives you time to focus all of your energy on yourself so that you're at your best once you do meet someone.
Plus isnt there some guy you talk about sometimes? :) Name starts with a 'J' I think....
Gah. Yes. It's odd that I want to relate to people on LJ but tend to want to keep the guy who I can actually meet in person for coffee at a distance. It's the commitment. *sigh* I.. gah, I don't know. There's a wall of stuff I could write a million reasons why I feel blocked on. Most of which would vanish the moment we actually started going out, because it's imaginary. Maybe.
Bugger it, I don't care. I'm single and I live in front of my computer and right now I find penises annoying.
I know exactly what you're saying! I was such a commitment phobe that I became a serial dater. If I thought a guy was getting too close then I would break up with him. And the couple of times that I did fall in love, it was always with the asshole who treated me like crap. I finally made a conscious decision to just be single. I was so tired of juggling guys and their bs and my own bs. It was overwhelming and was taking up too much of my mental energy. Of course, in the middle of that I ran into Tyler lol. Being single is underrated and boys, for the most part, are highly overrated!
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*jealous but happy for ya*
:-)
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But there is nothing wrong with being single or just dating around! It gives you time to focus all of your energy on yourself so that you're at your best once you do meet someone.
Plus isnt there some guy you talk about sometimes? :) Name starts with a 'J' I think....
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Bugger it, I don't care. I'm single and I live in front of my computer and right now I find penises annoying.
:-P
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ps. that's Ty in the user pic :)
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