I'm afraid of being responsible for another persons life...aka...my child. I know it's instinct to think abt the child before ur own....but I'm afraid that I'm still too selfish.
Once you have your baby, and get in a routine of taking care of him/her, I think you will really feel that your life is about taking care of your little one now :)
Oh, and many people say they have this love at first sight thing with their baby... don't feel bad if you don't feel it right away! My baby was wheeled away from me to the NICU right after she was born and I didnt get to hold her until the NEXT DAY!! it took a while for us to bond together.
Now she is my #1 priority in life. Life has changed big time and I love it.
i think i would be great... im just scared of that moment creeping up on me.... when i want to be selfish... and start missing being able to just "up and go to the mall or the bar" whenever i feel like it. im just being paranoid i guess.
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Oh, and many people say they have this love at first sight thing with their baby... don't feel bad if you don't feel it right away! My baby was wheeled away from me to the NICU right after she was born and I didnt get to hold her until the NEXT DAY!! it took a while for us to bond together.
Now she is my #1 priority in life. Life has changed big time and I love it.
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