How to make a peace in a quarrel

[nikoladim]

Today's post will be unscheduled, because the new idea came to my mind.
It's about quarrels so it can be very useful for you.

This method is taken from the book David D. Burns "Feeling Good Together: The Secret of Making Troubled " (Бернс "Ругаться нельзя мириться"). (I didn't find  it electronical version).

So, the situation is:
You are fighting with

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[nora_shekelman]

came to my mind => came into my mind
you was thinking => you were thinking
it's difficult sometimes => it's sometimes difficult
must be first => must be the first
But understand me => я бы сказала But you have to understand me
he must uderstand you also => he must uderstand you too, also это больше "кроме того"
after understanding him => after you understand him
a important recommendation => an important recommendation
No justifying yourself => Not justifying yourself/ Without justifying yourself
no matter is he right or wrong => no matter whether he is right or wrong
yours feelings => your feelings
Be respective => Be respectful, respective это "соответствующий"
in the monday => on monday
at the work => at work
in talking with road police => так точно нет, может while talking?

дочитаю - допишу)

[nora_shekelman]

но еще из того, что бросается в глаза: understaded => ну understood же)

[nikoladim]

Thnks, i will correct it) so many mistakes)

[prorsus]

Just don't try this with a woman. Because it will end halfway through step one. And it will end badly.

He: I understand that you can feel this way...

Me: OMG! Thank you! Yes! Yes, I bloody can feel this way. Thank you for letting me bloody feel the way I feel. Stop patronising me with the bullshit you read in stupid psychology blogs online please or I will start using "tips and tricks to keep your man" from Cosmopolitan 1983 on you. OMG!

[nikoladim]

Haha, and what is the correct way to handle such situations? :)