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[ninyaevoneigh]

I realized just now that the reason I hate porn so much is not merely because it objectifies its victims, but because I consider it a form of cheating ony your significant other. When I found out that a certain someone watched porn....oh, at least eight months ago now...I literally cried. And yes, it took me this long to figure out why- it hurt me

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[valorian]

Hmm. A mix of agreement and disagreement here. But one thing to note: with regard to doing something that hurts your significant other, how is porn different from anything else? If they hate the fact that you smoke and you continue to do it anyway, why would you insist on doing it? Doing something, anything, that someone you love is explicitly against means that you need to review your priorities

[ninyaevoneigh]

The difference is that smoking (n such) doesn't make the SO feel unsexy/ not enough/ even unloved. It can be annoying, but it doesn't /hurt/.

*shrugs* it's just my opinion. I really really despise porn.

[bluelyoness]

"The difference is that smoking (n such) doesn't make the SO feel unsexy/ not enough/ even unloved

[crimsoncalis]

do you guys still work at the same place? :blink

""... you once the guy in question makes you feel 100% confident about yourself and your sexuality and ability to turn him on. ""

Okay. I will take this into advice. Yes i took that out of context cause really, shouldnt guys be doing that to their signifigant others anyway?