Promise.

[nkdlife]

Why promises made to myself, can be broken so easily?.

Comments

[marvellous_lynx]

Because you always can find agreement with yourself?

[nkdlife]

Agreed or not, I keep simply "breaking them". No matter what I promise to myself....

[marvellous_lynx]

You are not alone, brother!

[nkdlife]

Hope so, if not it would be quite frustrating!.

[dos_caras]

probably any.

[nkdlife]

Does it happen to you also eh?. You promise not to do this, or to do that....and ups!.....gone.
Well, At least I do not have to work today. Love "memorial day" holiday.

[dos_caras]

well, i know it often happens , so i try not to make any promises...
good for you :)

[nkdlife]

uhm? you make no promises to yourself?.. Like I would never eat chocolates again, or wear a particular shoe, or have sex with someone...>>???
And oh...you brake them all!!.

[olmas]

tambien a otras personas, no preocupes:)

[nkdlife]

Me imagino todos pasamos por las mismas!.

[pyenot]

Because you can't run from yourselves

[nkdlife]

Good one!>

[whitish]

i suggest,

you have too much expectancies, and too little resources to fulfill them. it's a permanent internal conflict of human being.

[nkdlife]

Well!!!, Your comment is great thinking!. but I really meant silly things like...I promise not to wear a red shirt, or I promise no to date married women again, or I promise not to get drunk on Fridays.
And....I keep breaking them all.

[dos_caras]

this only means that deep in your heart, you don't really think these things aren't worth doing.

spinelessness?

[whitish]

i think you actually do not consider your "promise" is important for you.

it's more like thinking of variants in terms of "what if..", and when you are faced with choice you just think "well, I can do fulfil my promise, it's actually easy, so I will do not"

but if you really would have like to give a promise to yourself, you will perform it, everyone will.

Maybe it worth to try to make an experiment ;)