I'm really sorry. This sucks. Reading this just made me want to give you a hug or something, but that wouldn't really help. A change in scenery will do you good I think.
hey, so you commented on my post about boys so I thought I should do the same for you. You had a lot of great advice slash comforting words. So thanks for that :)
For this guy, I know I don't know much, but why do you feel it necessary to stay friends? It seems like an extremely unhealthy relationship. He also seems to treat you like actual poo. Maybe there is more I need to understand before I make those judgments but from what I can tell I say just cut all ties. Or else it will eat you up until you guys get back together (which you then will be eaten up by the relationship). If I'm missing something or saying something out of place, I apologize. I'm making judgments from what I see.
Stay strong though! I recently went through a break up and it's been shitty but I'm definitely getting through it. If I can do this then you can do it, especially if you know so much about relationships and shit.
Honestly, I don't think everyone has Daddy issues, and if you do have them, you don't know it or how to fix them, or you wouldn't have them in the first place, you know? So as I've said before, Marc has them, knows he has them, pretty much wallows in it and is obnoxious about it, and thus you shouldn't want to be involved with him because you can't fill the gap of love he has missing because of it. It is tough because he did such a quick turn around on you, and maybe you shouldn't continue a friendship with him, but it's entirely up to you and how the whole thing makes you feel. If it hurts too much in a few weeks, then I'd say cut him off, why bother? It's all a matter of what you get out of it. So if you get some sort of comfort or happiness, keep it up, and if not, drop it.
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For this guy, I know I don't know much, but why do you feel it necessary to stay friends? It seems like an extremely unhealthy relationship. He also seems to treat you like actual poo. Maybe there is more I need to understand before I make those judgments but from what I can tell I say just cut all ties. Or else it will eat you up until you guys get back together (which you then will be eaten up by the relationship). If I'm missing something or saying something out of place, I apologize. I'm making judgments from what I see.
Stay strong though! I recently went through a break up and it's been shitty but I'm definitely getting through it. If I can do this then you can do it, especially if you know so much about relationships and shit.
Nick
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