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noladancer

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May 06, 2005 22:26

robert and i are splitting up. I did everything i could. I was sad and hurt last night when i found out, but i went to dinner with my dad and realized that this sadness is bullshit. He left us. He left PJ and I on our asses. Sent pj to live with his mother, left me without my knowledge-all while i was at the doctors office yesterday for yet, ( Read more... )

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msvenus May 6 2005, 22:18:53 UTC

don't give him the satisfaction of your blood pressure raising...he's so not worth it. Married for 2 months and this??? BULLSHIT! That is NOT a man, I tell you that.
Good luck to you. Call me if you need to, just not late, please.
I'll be busy all weekend but around next week.
Later~

laffie22 May 7 2005, 04:11:40 UTC

***hugs*** I'm so sorry hun :( that is such bullshit and he's such a coward for not telling you himself. wtf is wrong with him? I'm here for ya!

msn7princess May 7 2005, 04:18:43 UTC

I am just flabergasted, I never expected this of him, I feel horrible for PJ, he is a kid that was excited for his new life with you. I am sorry about ella, I am going to miss her. I am just at a loss for words and just don't know what to say about it all. Just remember I love you no matter what.

msvenus May 7 2005, 08:03:13 UTC

I know Money is no object...but you seem to make a big deal out of him not having a lot of cash. (We live day to day, week to week right now so I can't say much about low funds)
But hell, take his ass to court for the divorce, be a bitch! Louisiana goes for the women 99% of the time. And when they hear your story, they'll get his ass!!
I deffinitely wouldn't let this go without a fight, if I were you.

noladancer May 7 2005, 18:55:13 UTC

No, all that energy is better spent on packing my life up and making sure my son doesn't feel deserted...no matter what his father has done or doesn't have straight. I love that man, and i always will, but I have to realize that I did all i could and he left us. He left us, with no regard to PJ's feelings or mine. It ain't about him not having cash baby, it is about him having a problem managing that money and then making excuses to be gone at work all the time. 3 jobs and he says he loves his son, but he is a tugboat captain, not just a boat captain a masters licenced tugboat captain-the highest licence you can have and the most well paid. He doesn't want to be here, can't manage his money, and so his son and i get the shaft. I'd rather see that money go to PJ. I won't fight. I cannot control him, the only thing i can control is making sure that PJ feels loved, wanted, and needed. And to call him every day just to let him know that I haven't left him and that i never will ( ... )