sometimes i wonder who I'll be if I have a child. What I'll pass on. What I'll say to them when they are crying. What to yell at them when I am mad
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i know that you will be an AMAZING parent. as a child who grew up by your side, i have no doubt in the world that you would pass on all the mounds of love you have to a little being. and auntie cait would come watch you sing my little pony operas to said baby in the bathtub whenever you called.
and your mamma loves you. both our mammas love us - even if they are crazycrazycrazy ladies now and again.
I worry about the idea of fucking up a child...it's why I'm not intending to ever have children. I don't want to have the opporuntiy to become any more like my mother than I already am, and I would NOT want a kid to go through some of the things I've had to deal with.
That said, we're all a little anxious about that kind of thing, so we're less likely to assess ourselves accurately. You'd make a better mother than you think, probably.
Besides, and this is supposed to be a comforting thought, there are plenty of other bad things happening in the world to fuck up a kid without you having anything to do with it!
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and your mamma loves you. both our mammas love us - even if they are crazycrazycrazy ladies now and again.
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That said, we're all a little anxious about that kind of thing, so we're less likely to assess ourselves accurately. You'd make a better mother than you think, probably.
Besides, and this is supposed to be a comforting thought, there are plenty of other bad things happening in the world to fuck up a kid without you having anything to do with it!
Sorry to hear that Shaun's visit wasn't so good.
Have a HUG
take care x
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