Move on! Just kidding. But on a serious note, 7 - 11 years seems a bit long to get over a girl you dated a little over a year. Sometimes shit happens and we can't do anything about it. That's all we want you to realize. That's why we say move on. The 1st love is the hardest to get over, but it can be done. Also, the way you make your emotions sound makes it seem more like obsessive than constant. You honestly just need to date a better girl that you actually want to date. No settling. I highly doubt she was your dream girl. You find one you really like and likes you back. The old hag will be nothing but a distant memory or a chapter in your life.
Speaking from an outsider's point of view..ixnayonthetimmaApril 11 2008, 00:09:36 UTC
You can't move on. There. I said it. It is impossible to move on, in the sense that you continue your life as if this person never existed. Because no matter how "little" time (little being entirely subjective) you were emotionally involved with a person, the fact remains that you were still emotionally involved. Just that fact alone means that you are doomed to at least think of that person from time to time, have the memories of your involvement and interaction come flooding back, and ponder over it for a while
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Re: Speaking from an outsider's point of view..the_glass_jcApril 11 2008, 00:21:20 UTC
I disagree entirely. One can move on.
Although you may not ever forget the girls you have loved, you will eventually cease to love them. If you no longer feel the feelings, then I'd say you have moved on.
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and before last night, i wasn't trying to move on.
now i am. it may not seem like it, but i am.
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Although you may not ever forget the girls you have loved, you will eventually cease to love them. If you no longer feel the feelings, then I'd say you have moved on.
Of course, I could be completely wrong here.
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