I am very sorry to hear about your distress. Please don't give up. Few months back I was whining and whining non stop. a 2 years relationship was dumped to the trash, it affected my school..(just like the valedictorian failed 2 classes for the first time. The competitive , the high achiever who used to fight for A+ started pulling C's and didn't even care about my GPA or school anymore) my life became a mess, and somehow it is still a mess. I started losing so much weight and none of my pants would fit me anymore...they became so loose...the texture of my hair started, and I started looking so pale and sick....I got moody and nothing used to make me happy, I would cry constantly bitch about the past, and curse the day I fell in love and got involved with that man...but one day I woke up with a will to stop this shit and start all over...I am more focus on school. more closer to my family...and I stopped whining....and obviously I don't care anymore about that man anymore...though we are still in touch and we always talk but my heart
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that is really sweet of you. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm glad you got your life back together, I hope I can eventually do the same. This deep funk is no fun. The thing is, my life has always been hard. I'm no newbie to adversity. I had a really really tough childhood and that's why I think generally I'm as tough as nails and generally having a few problems doesnt bring me down. In fact, I've always been this eeriely happy person with a sunny outlook on life DESPITE my problems
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It happpens Nora. You are mourning over the loss of your aunt. Don't it affect your school...you are almost done with med school...
I know exactly how you feel..in fact I can relate myself to you. sadness and anger ...you try to snap out of it but somehow you feel and with no energy you just wanna be alone...Take all the time you need to heal your wounds but don't let it affect your school.
It is okay to not be sociable and to not talk to others...if that will help you feel better go for it...I myself stopped contact with so many people...and trsut me I feel much better now...
I wish you the best my dear...and I am always here to listen to you.
I'm not sure what to say, exactly, except I'm sorry you're going through sll of this and I care! I'm really bad at comforting people about the death of their loved ones, because I don't handle bereavement any better than you do. If you want to talk about it, I'm here for you to listen sympathetically and offer you e-hugs
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I know exactly how you feel..in fact I can relate myself to you. sadness and anger ...you try to snap out of it but somehow you feel and with no energy you just wanna be alone...Take all the time you need to heal your wounds but don't let it affect your school.
It is okay to not be sociable and to not talk to others...if that will help you feel better go for it...I myself stopped contact with so many people...and trsut me I feel much better now...
I wish you the best my dear...and I am always here to listen to you.
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BTW-- the entire CV class of 2001 practically is on face book.. u really should get one.
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What is facebook, exactly? Is it like LJ?
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