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This community is tragically inactive. I feel kinda weird posting so much more than all the multitudes of other members recently.
Anyway, this is probably a very simplistic question.
I'm 17.
I'm a virgin. So's my boyfriend. I also happen to be very tight and very small down there. I have to use the slimfit tampons because the regular size are too big and are uncomfortable to insert. For anyone who isn't aware, Slimfits are roughly the size of two pencils taped together. I don't think I have an intact hymen, I just happen to have a very tight, narrow pussy. Masturbation-wise I'm dependent on clitoral stimulation and rarely insert anything. I'm not used to having much in there.
We've decided to use lube when we do eventually have sex so it's easier to put it in and such, so that's not so much a problem.
But here's the question.
For any one's who's had this conversation before, or anyone who's penetrated at least one (or more) virgin before, what's the least uncomfortable position for a girl to lose her virginity in. I hear about a lot first time guy on top all the time, never heard of first time (for the girl) girl on top. I'm curious as to what anyone's experienced in this kind of scenario.
I've heard a lot that it always hurts a little, and I've heard it doesn't need to hurt and I know that if the body is ready enough and it's inserted slowly enough it won't hurt very much at all.
But never any discussion of positions. Seriously. Share, please, because my bf is terrified of hurting me at all.
Thanks for anyone who responds
Anyway, this is probably a very simplistic question.
I'm 17.
I'm a virgin. So's my boyfriend. I also happen to be very tight and very small down there. I have to use the slimfit tampons because the regular size are too big and are uncomfortable to insert. For anyone who isn't aware, Slimfits are roughly the size of two pencils taped together. I don't think I have an intact hymen, I just happen to have a very tight, narrow pussy. Masturbation-wise I'm dependent on clitoral stimulation and rarely insert anything. I'm not used to having much in there.
We've decided to use lube when we do eventually have sex so it's easier to put it in and such, so that's not so much a problem.
But here's the question.
For any one's who's had this conversation before, or anyone who's penetrated at least one (or more) virgin before, what's the least uncomfortable position for a girl to lose her virginity in. I hear about a lot first time guy on top all the time, never heard of first time (for the girl) girl on top. I'm curious as to what anyone's experienced in this kind of scenario.
I've heard a lot that it always hurts a little, and I've heard it doesn't need to hurt and I know that if the body is ready enough and it's inserted slowly enough it won't hurt very much at all.
But never any discussion of positions. Seriously. Share, please, because my bf is terrified of hurting me at all.
Thanks for anyone who responds