It's happening again....

[not_ur_bitch]

So with holiday season creeping upon us all I need to motivate myself to go to the gym before I become more of a freakin blob!  I don't understand why it's so hard to eat right and exercise.  All it's going to do is better me, yet is seems nearly impossible.  Which is depressing cuz I always feel as though I would like myself more if I looked more

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[bookwrm1922]

I'm disappointed. You know that the photo is not real. Be realistic! You are a beautiful person inside AND out. A ton of people look at you everyday and think "if only I looked like her...", just like you do with other people. It is about perspective. When you look at yourself, don't look at all the things that are wrong or that you do not have...look at all the things that you have. I bet that you'll find more things. If you are unhappy with yourself the majority of the time, no matter what you'll stay in that state of mind. You are too awesome to be so negative about yourself! Blah blah blah I know, but still... :) I am not the thinest, fittest person around, but if it helps at all I have always been jealous of your super hottness!

[not_ur_bitch]

Lol YOU jealous of my super hottness. You have got to be kidding, you're hot ass got Micheal Scrupolu our freshman year and EVERYONE was jealous I'm sure. As I recall I had zero boyfriends in high school and about the same amount of people interested in me. And you're small and you look tiny and cute and girly and pretty, where as I feel manly being abnormally tall for a half asian female. And especially compared to my mom whom everytime I talk to her asks me if I've lost more weight yet. Blah, I just need to move back home and get out more and not have so much time to sit around and feel sorry about myself.

[bookwrm1922]

Why does that sound like the original post? Gee, that does not sound positive at all. I know, I was Ms. Super Cool Gagillion Boyfriends in good ol' high school. Does that matter? Not really...except I probably got called a slut more often than you. You totally missed out. Here's what your reply should have said: "wow Lisa, you're right. I'm gorgeous and intelligent and a good person. I have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me, and I love him too and stupid ass high school bullshit matters not. I have a great life and am so happy, especially with myself. In fact, I am so awesome that even if my life fell to pieces I would still be happy with myself, because I kick ass." -Angelia. Oh well...the point of it is that no matter who, what, or where you are, there are things wrong with you! Just like you have all those great adjectives to describe me I've got short, belly-haver, annoying, zitty, self-concious...yada yada yada. Nobody is perfect, and you will NEVER feel good about yourself if you focus on the negative. You are

[not_ur_bitch]

Lol actually, I got called a slut quite a bit senior year. Even though I was still a virgin!!! But I guess just cuz you don't have sex doesn't mean you can't be slutty but still! And yes, you're definitely right in the fact that I do have a wonderful boyfriend who loves me regardless of WHAT I am because he knows WHO I am...though sometime I think he doesn't like that either...but I'm a girl and I'm allowed to get bitchy and be demanding haha. And I have got to say, I have never heard of the word belly-haver.

[thomasngo]

Even though society says that girls should be unrealistically beautiful doesn't mean that you should fall into this trap. If you think that you have a slight weight problem, then you shouldn't look at it as something utterly horrendous. It's a challenge waiting for you to conquer, not a monster you should submit to.

The only ugly thing is this stereotype... and that photo you just posted up. If you keep comparing yourself to these things, you'll only destroy yourself.

[not_ur_bitch]

I know I should be smarter than what the media says but a part of me cannot help but to want that. I know for me it's unrealistic, it's just not the way I'm built. And I would like to conquer the challenge of losing the extra 15 pounds I have on me but I just cannot seem to motivate myself to do it.

[bloodnalovesong]

2 words, SUSHI DIET.

[not_ur_bitch]

Lol, what's that about, and I don't like fish!

[bloodnalovesong]

I'm on sort of a sushi diet. i think i'll lose a million pounds, plus its good. YUM! i dont eat fish. i eat veggie rolls. So really, all i'm eating are vggies, rice, and sea weed. Good diet, yes? Yesterday i broke it though because I ate at Red Robin with the ladies. Whatever, i just got down eating a cucumber roll and it was delish.

[boarderguy]

as far as summer is concerned, how about tennis? seriously i think its even better than running because of the competitive aspect. oh and winter? hike up a mountain with 4 feet of snow and a snowboard on your back, u lose SO much weight that way. ok joking, but just hiking uphill is really good for cardio..

[not_ur_bitch]

Oh man I miss tennis a lot. I bet I SUCK horribly now. And yeah, I agree, I would much rather play a competitive game than just run for the hell of it. And as for snowboarding, I suck, I end up falling down the moutain which leaves me sore and lazy for days!