I am so angry at the stupidity of some teenagers in this country!!! Seriously. The stupidity level in the country has reached an all time high
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Do not be offended. I wasn't talking "about you" because I didn't name names specifically so that people wouldn't get hurt and so that other people wouldn't know who I was talking about. I am going to delete this comment so that our friend's name will not be mentioned. I was mistaken about her withdrawing from college, but I must say that moving to another dorm and then to her boyfriend's is quite a drastic step for someone who was perfectly happy in the dorm before that. It was bad, and I want to prevent bad things from happening to my friends. Don't be offended because I care about you! In my experience, really bad things have happened at that frat as compared to others, so common sense tells me that we should stay away from it. If bad things of the same nature have happened at other places, then why do we go there again too? I just don't understand, I don't want to risk my life or my friends' just to have a good time. What can I say? I am my mother.
Wait!!! I know for a fact that our friend was not raped!! The police officer told me himself that the rape kit came back negative. Yes, she was drugged and, yes, I feel like crap everytime I think about it, because I keep thinking that I could have done more, but I've spent DAYS with these guys in Florida and just hanging out, and I don't think for a second that one of them did it!! If I did, I most definitely would fucking knee every last one of them in the balls and tell them to burn in fucking hell!! Now as for our friend, if she came up to me today and said, "Mary, I don't want you going back to that frat EVER!!!" I would do it. Because I love and I miss her, and my friends are definitely more important to me than some frat boys and liquor!! I know that you were just venting, and that's fine. But done make assumptions about people unless you know the complete story.
Now as for the idiots passing out, they need help... and therapy... and possibly a lobotomy! :-D
Just the fact that a rape kit is mentioned in this conversation makes me nervous. Can't you see how I feel? I havent partied nearly as much as you guys, and yet I've seen when the bad things happen. I think you guys may just be so used to everything being ok that you arent prepared for something to go wrong. Even if nothing happened to our friend, something will happen to one of us, guaranteed, and I want us to take every step to prevent that from happening.
But Courtney, i don't think that you're realizing that us going back to this frat and kids playing the "pass out game" are two very different things!
I don't think I'm risking my life by going to fraternities. If I did, I obviously wouldn't go! And to live my life the way that you're suggesting would mean that I would never dare to do anything remotely adventurous or diferent, because I'd have this constant fear. I can't live my life that way, and I don't think you should either! You miss out on so much when you don't allow yourself to take a chance. I juat have to trust that God is looking out for me because no matter what I do, if it's time for me to die (or something just as grave) there is not a damn thing I can do about it!
And sweetie, I'm not trying to just jump on you or anything, because I do understand what you're saying, but what you're suggesting is that I would purposly put my life (and tose of my friends) in danger because I'm bored. And that's just not so.
Of course I am not suggesting that going to that frat and playing the pass out game are the same. My point is, I guess, that I would feel both betrayed and fearful if my friends kept going back to a frat(or anywhere else for that matter) where I had felt violated or hurt. I wouldn't and I don't want anyone to be hurt.
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Yes, she was drugged and, yes, I feel like crap everytime I think about it, because I keep thinking that I could have done more, but I've spent DAYS with these guys in Florida and just hanging out, and I don't think for a second that one of them did it!! If I did, I most definitely would fucking knee every last one of them in the balls and tell them to burn in fucking hell!!
Now as for our friend, if she came up to me today and said, "Mary, I don't want you going back to that frat EVER!!!" I would do it. Because I love and I miss her, and my friends are definitely more important to me than some frat boys and liquor!!
I know that you were just venting, and that's fine. But done make assumptions about people unless you know the complete story.
Now as for the idiots passing out, they need help... and therapy... and possibly a lobotomy! :-D
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I don't think I'm risking my life by going to fraternities. If I did, I obviously wouldn't go! And to live my life the way that you're suggesting would mean that I would never dare to do anything remotely adventurous or diferent, because I'd have this constant fear. I can't live my life that way, and I don't think you should either! You miss out on so much when you don't allow yourself to take a chance. I juat have to trust that God is looking out for me because no matter what I do, if it's time for me to die (or something just as grave) there is not a damn thing I can do about it!
And sweetie, I'm not trying to just jump on you or anything, because I do understand what you're saying, but what you're suggesting is that I would purposly put my life (and tose of my friends) in danger because I'm bored. And that's just not so.
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I guess I just can't make my point well.
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