Comments | npd_family: Sister learned bad behavior from narcissistic mother.

competewithno1 in npd_family

Sister learned bad behavior from narcissistic mother.

Apr 17, 2016 09:09

I want the perfect come back for my narcissistic older sister who is likely a sociopath. I will call her Charlie. She has a sign in her kitchen that says "be nice or leave" yet she is the least nicest person I know. (She never said she had to be nice but I still take issue with its directives.) Being a sociopath she is excellent at spinning ( Read more... )

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finding_helena April 18 2016, 01:51:44 UTC

Whatever you say won't get through to her. I would focus on letting it go, and try to spend as little time as possible around her.

Or say "Hey, Charlie, read the sign", which'll at least shut her up for a minute while she tries to figure out what you mean.

finding_helena April 18 2016, 04:19:04 UTC

im sorry I said that wrong ( ... )

finding_helena April 19 2016, 00:44:12 UTC

"As you may have noticed, Charlie and I do not get along. I do not feel that our relationship adds to my life, so I have chosen not to spend time around her." And then "I don't want to talk about this anymore. [insert subject change to innocuous subject, like cooking or what the kids are up to.]"

competewithno1 April 19 2016, 00:53:05 UTC

Thanks.

I told her I don't talk to her anymore.

lb_lee April 18 2016, 02:03:34 UTC

Pft, I've yet to find a comeback for that kind of thing. I'm all for avoidance and cutting off, myself.

jurhael December 2 2023, 19:20:29 UTC

The only comeback is to leave because “I can’t be nice.”
It’s been years, so I hope things are okay with you now.