"Maybe you don't find white boys attractive."

[nsrawther]

In conversation about the opposite sex with Tiffany, I mentioned not being attracted to this guy whom I recently went on two dates with. The first time we met, I hadn't paid him much attention. We met at the Tesco Metro in town, it was dark and my mind was everywhere. He too had not paid attention to my looks. What connected us was strangely a

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[aldythlightfoot]

Relationships are only begun with attraction. You can be attracted to any one, and you've said you've been attracted to white guys. But in the end attraction isn't enough, you need a connection to want to continue on. You just haven't found the connection part. But it's good that you don't just settle, but aren't closed off to anything. Love happens when you least expect it and usually with someone you never thought of before. But don't worry nothing you've said has made you weird for a girl.

[nsrawther]

I was attracted to him in many ways other than looks. I suppose we must be attracted to friends for them to be our friends.. If that makes any sense at all. We'll be meeting up again this weekend. But would it just be meeting up as friends since I have mentioned friendship being all that I can offer? Or could it still be seen as a date. Oh, these things always are more complicated than they should be! Or perhaps I make them that way.

[aldythlightfoot]

A good rule of thumb is that the best boyfriends are your best friends. Just make sure that the other person is clear about where you stand. Relationships in every form can be complicated so it's normal. Good luck with it though!