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Aug 15, 2005 05:40

ok so i realize i am male and therefore am not supposed to be able to understand females. this being said anyone who might be able to help me understand this please try and explain this one to me. ok so she loves me but she cant be with me cause she cant handle it. she wants to be friends with me but she thinks we need to stay away from each other ( Read more... )

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xnathan919x August 15 2005, 10:53:27 UTC

Sounds like the constant struggle that was Rebecca and I. I feel for ya, dude. They're just crazy. Well, a lot of them anyway.

nubianfaith August 15 2005, 12:45:10 UTC

your telling me.

the_adriator August 15 2005, 20:38:21 UTC

she wants you to go after her.. (i think, i'm not good at this either)....

i THINK she wants you to prove to her that you want to be with her or whatever by bothering her when she says she needs alone time. i dunno, most girls say one thing and mean another and i've never been able to master that skill

nubianfaith August 15 2005, 23:10:52 UTC

wow if that is it thats retarded.

trade ya nowwwhere August 16 2005, 02:35:28 UTC

mine cheated on me, says that she still loves me but says i am the cause of all the misery in her life, and STILL wants to be friends. whole lotta crazy going around

Re: trade ya nubianfaith August 16 2005, 09:32:25 UTC

yeah bathani says she still loves me too. well mabye not after the argument we had yesterday. found out she lied to me. she tried to lie some more i wouldnt have it so she got mad. oh well. apparently she is "dating" some other guy now. according to beth he acts like he's 12 which coming from her it must be pretty bad. so wait lara starting messing around with asian dave before she said anything to you? i will talk to you online or this saterday. cause i swear to god i will go the fuck off on her if it's what i think it is.

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maryzero August 16 2005, 06:30:37 UTC

the answer is obvious.

she's fucking psycho.

nubianfaith August 16 2005, 09:33:03 UTC

i dated her so yes. noone i date even remotly resembles sane. it's just how it works.

dont assume too much maryzero August 25 2005, 20:02:34 UTC

girls arent easy to read... but definitely realize they say what they mean... dont try to place false assumptions to their requests... if they want to be friends but need some time... give them time... if they love you but cant handle a relationship then just love them back without a relationship... actually i dont think females are that difficult to read... sounds like she spelled everything out to you

Re: dont assume too much nubianfaith August 26 2005, 11:50:50 UTC

actually she didnt really spell things out cause i dont think she really knew/knows what she wants. that isnt ment as an insult to her in any way shape or form. but the changing of her mind so often suggests that she isnt sure that she is doing the right thing either way she turns. it wasnt till well after the initial entry was made that she explained anything to me as to why she was doing what she was doing. when i posted this she had not told me what she was feeling or thinking. i have tried to give her whatever she has asked for and i would hope she knows i love her. i think she does know as much as i have expressed my concern for her well being. i would tell her but i think that would make thing awkward and i have been having a hard time judging her mood and reactions. she seems so distant and indifferant lately when we talk on the phone and when we hang out shes so tierd from her jobs and other things it is difficult to tell her mood. i dont know. she will find her way to happyness and herself and what it is she wants. and mabye ( ... )