I remember the stress of having to make arrangements for my dad's funeral only to have my older siblings go behind my back and do what they wanted, not what he wanted. It sucked and I was/still am pissed about it. As if making the arrangements wasn't stressful enough but add sibling bullying ( cause t hat's what they do with me) on top of that and I was ready to lose it.
I am sorry to hear about your grandmother and i'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Best advice I was given when I was going through this.. take 5 minutes, sit and just breathe.
you still have time to get stories written but don't stress it.
Oh sweetie, I am so sorry about your grandmother, really, but it is good you managed to get that last hour with her. No matter how aware she was at that point, she knew and that's what matters - it's so important to have people who love you close when you leave on that journey.
I hear you about the funeral. We had to do that for my mom on a tiny budget and could not believe what the simplest thing cost and wanted to honour her but knew she'd be very unhappy if we went into debt over it. Just do your best, she'll understand.
Writing when you're going through something like this is an utter bitch. Don't push it, the ideas will build on their own and when you're ready to write they'll be there. There's still time (thus speaks she who has a Big Bang that currently is a Concept).
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I am sorry to hear about your grandmother and i'm keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Best advice I was given when I was going through this.. take 5 minutes, sit and just breathe.
you still have time to get stories written but don't stress it.
**hugs**
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I hear you about the funeral. We had to do that for my mom on a tiny budget and could not believe what the simplest thing cost and wanted to honour her but knew she'd be very unhappy if we went into debt over it. Just do your best, she'll understand.
Writing when you're going through something like this is an utter bitch. Don't push it, the ideas will build on their own and when you're ready to write they'll be there. There's still time (thus speaks she who has a Big Bang that currently is a Concept).
*hugs*
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*Hugs you*
~Dark
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It's just impossible to write in the middle of all that. Give yourself a bit of time to get your head back together. It will come.
**hugs**
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