Ok don't take this the wrong way Paul but no one else can make you happy. Only you can do that. You have to be happy with yourself. You should do that before you meet someone else. That's what I did and now things are going well with Chris. Despite everything that happened with us I still care about you and I wanna see you happy.
Hmm.. Yeah.. I know that.. I guess I need to figure out what it is that makes me happy and I think it's just that I get lonely on my own here.. I get too much time to think about stuff and then over-analyse everything.. When I'm dancing at Salsa I'm happy, when I'm out with people then I'm happy.. I think it's just being here by myself that makes me unhappy..
Yeah it sounds like it could be. I tend to over analyse things when I'm alone too and it's never a good thing to do cos it makes you upset and think things that aren't true. I dunno if this will help you but Jamie told me that when I start to get into that pattern of thinking to sit and focus on something like the wall and just stare at the wall and try to clear your mind of thoughts. You'll eventually come up with an answer or solution. Kinda like meditating. It helps me sometimes. It might help you.
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