People are bad, not just one gender. I hate generalisations overall, but sexist ones are just juvenile. Personally, I'd walk away if neither of you want the same thing. Tell her that yes, you would like a romance with her, but if she doesn't want that then.. yeah. Putting aside the details, the whole point of relationships is to appreciate a common ground. Even you and I have a common ground; we blog and comment. I hope this makes sense.
Congrats on the job at Sanity. They didn't even reply to my application.
Ben I'm not going to bag you. You are a nice guy. I was single for nearly three years. Nice things do happen to nice people, you just gotta be patient (yeah that sucks).
No way, Ben. Do not still see her. If she doesn't want what you want, then that's it. Chicks are fucked up, man. It sounds to me like she just likes having someone there, who she knows likes her, and who she can lead on and feel better about herself with. It's what I do to boys who like me, when I don't like them. But, I'm a bitch, and I'm not pretending to be something else, she obviously is. I'm angry at her, cause I know that you really liked her, and she was just leading you on. Don't give her what she wants Ben...
i dunno if i get a discount or not...we havent been told...
and yeah...im just gonna give up on them. they aren't worth the pain. and yeah, its easy saying 'dont get ur hopes up' lol, but im the sort of person who sees a hot girl smiling at me and is already thinking of our kids names....sad i know...
and i know wat u mean about relationship advice...i seem to give it out all the time..when i am about as qualified as a 2 yo...
Ask them how they feel before investing so much into them and what they're looking for.
That's the best start I've found, rather then just screwing around and finding out they don't want a relationship to begin with.
I don't mean to sound offensive or anything...I have noticed that you are so negative about things. I've known for this for a while...but, that's just you. It's your issue, if you think it's one, no one elses. Negatives not easy to kick when things are screwing you around, I understand that and that's why parents always say, be positive about this and that...everyone else can see it and can rub off.
you don't think i did that? u think i just sat and waited for her to deliver the bad news?
and no offense to you...but u dont know me, and i am negative...its me...and i dont see any other way to live. i don't see the point in living like "oh yes, i'm going to meet someone amazing and live happily ever after" coz thats bullshit, and false hope. I would rather live my life realistically and look things logically rather than sit and wait for something that is not guaranteed to happen
and one thing that pisses me off is positive people trying to change my mind. it's great u have someone to make u happy et etc...but remember what it was like being single and alone and having pplz who are happy in relationships telling u 'oh it will turn out well, look where i was'
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Personally, I'd walk away if neither of you want the same thing. Tell her that yes, you would like a romance with her, but if she doesn't want that then.. yeah. Putting aside the details, the whole point of relationships is to appreciate a common ground. Even you and I have a common ground; we blog and comment. I hope this makes sense.
Congrats on the job at Sanity. They didn't even reply to my application.
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If she doesn't want what you want, then that's it.
Chicks are fucked up, man.
It sounds to me like she just likes having someone there, who she knows likes her, and who she can lead on and feel better about herself with.
It's what I do to boys who like me, when I don't like them.
But, I'm a bitch, and I'm not pretending to be something else, she obviously is.
I'm angry at her, cause I know that you really liked her, and she was just leading you on.
Don't give her what she wants Ben...
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and yeah...im just gonna give up on them. they aren't worth the pain. and yeah, its easy saying 'dont get ur hopes up' lol, but im the sort of person who sees a hot girl smiling at me and is already thinking of our kids names....sad i know...
and i know wat u mean about relationship advice...i seem to give it out all the time..when i am about as qualified as a 2 yo...
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Giving up is quiting. Quiting isn't cool. :p
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That's the best start I've found, rather then just screwing around and finding out they don't want a relationship to begin with.
I don't mean to sound offensive or anything...I have noticed that you are so negative about things. I've known for this for a while...but, that's just you. It's your issue, if you think it's one, no one elses. Negatives not easy to kick when things are screwing you around, I understand that and that's why parents always say, be positive about this and that...everyone else can see it and can rub off.
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and no offense to you...but u dont know me, and i am negative...its me...and i dont see any other way to live. i don't see the point in living like "oh yes, i'm going to meet someone amazing and live happily ever after" coz thats bullshit, and false hope. I would rather live my life realistically and look things logically rather than sit and wait for something that is not guaranteed to happen
and one thing that pisses me off is positive people trying to change my mind. it's great u have someone to make u happy et etc...but remember what it was like being single and alone and having pplz who are happy in relationships telling u 'oh it will turn out well, look where i was'
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