Comments | nycsbeauty78: Hey

nycsbeauty78

Hey

Aug 06, 2003 13:36

Last night I watched Analyze That and Swimfan. Analyze That was funny as hell and Swimfan was sick. It made me sad though cuz its like guys cheat. Girls like that do exist and then the guy ends up cheating on his girlfriend cuz of this girl. But he felt bad and then loves his girlfriend , but then its like if u love your girlfriend so much why did ( Read more... )

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king_of_spin August 6 2003, 19:20:09 UTC

yeah... it takes a while... but then you realize its okay to feel hurt... just not okay to stay in a situation that keeps hurting you.

nycsbeauty78 August 6 2003, 20:04:13 UTC

this is true

starsirena16 August 6 2003, 19:39:05 UTC

Yes, when I watch movies when the guys cheat it really makes me worry about my boy.. But then I know he would never ever do that to me...

nycsbeauty78 August 6 2003, 20:03:44 UTC

u found a good guy then =)

starsirena16 August 7 2003, 00:58:17 UTC

Yes, I am very lucky

nycsbeauty78 August 7 2003, 04:41:14 UTC

ya u are =)

babybluetruca August 6 2003, 21:09:03 UTC

yea, swim fan is a psycho movie! i remeber i was like i wanna see it coz i swim and i'm goin to a new school and i'm scanadalous- then i saw it and i was like whoa i'm not THAT scandalous!

it's sad that people cheat...

nycsbeauty78 August 6 2003, 21:27:54 UTC

it was a great movie but its sad that some girls are really like that
they dont care if the guy has a gf they will still try and get him its so sad

babybluetruca August 6 2003, 22:00:04 UTC

so do you think its the girls fault for wanting a taken dude, or the guys for not being like "i got a girl, peace"?

nycsbeauty78 August 6 2003, 22:44:16 UTC

well its both of thier faults
he did say i got a girlfriend but he still stayed around her which is cool cuz they were friends , but the girl kept coming on to him , in the pool when she went to kiss him , he should have left right then and there

lady_killah August 6 2003, 21:13:27 UTC

I thought that Swim Fan was a grate movie, but then I could just be F***ed in the head :)

nycsbeauty78 August 6 2003, 21:26:55 UTC

i thought id was great too
it just made me think

lady_killah August 7 2003, 01:14:51 UTC

It does have that effect on people doesn’t it?

nycsbeauty78 August 7 2003, 04:40:43 UTC

it did on me =)

perplexio August 6 2003, 23:11:52 UTC

The truth is that men are human... Humans are given to temptation, unfortunately. No matter how much a guy loves a girl, if the temptation is overwhelming the guy will give in.

Men who are faithful are smart enough to avoid situations that would tempt them to cheat.

Cheating isn't necessarily a sign of a lack of love, it's sometimes a sign of lack of will-power.

Granted, if a guy is unhappy in a relationship he's probably far more apt to put himself in situations in which he might give in to temptation and cheat on the person he's involved with.

lady_killah August 7 2003, 01:20:37 UTC

I am sorry man but I do not buy that. I have been in situations were I could have cheated on my gf, and I didn’t. The opportunity was there and I stud firm and found a way out. The point is that you will find your self in a situation were you are tempted; the real measure of a man is what you do in that situation.

perplexio August 7 2003, 02:16:06 UTC

I've never cheated either, but I do believe that everyone has a certain threshold of temptation. Some people have a higher threshold than others... Some have a weaker will than others.

A cheater is just a weak-willed individual (and I'm not going to single out men here either, women cheat too).

Kudos to you for resisting temptation... I was speaking VERY generally, EVERY situation is different and every person is different. But I do notice certain patterns in human nature and that's what my comments are based on.

nycsbeauty78 August 7 2003, 04:43:07 UTC

true
but girls are also shady though
he kept telling her he had a gf and it didnt even seem to phase her
thats just wrong
most of my old friends were the same way

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