Comments | nyuki_1: The sin of chivalry

nyuki_1

The sin of chivalry - the hatred of decency

Oct 11, 2005 20:08

I think I am in the minority of guys, those who believe in "chivalry". It's a dying concept - not because it is wrong, but because it is a sure-fire way to be USED. Not appreciated, not thanked for being kind, we get used and abused like a virgin catholic schoolgirl by the “ideal guy” (more on that later). “Me” does not matter, its what “me” can do ( Read more... )

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astraychild October 12 2005, 04:07:05 UTC

Girls are drawn for some reason to the guys with problems, the assholes, the idiots, the trouble-makers, because they have a driving desire to change those guys, to fix them, to help them. The fixer-uppers might be more trouble than they're worth, but girls don't think that way. They just want to help and so they go for the guys that they think they can fix, even if they can't.

nyuki_1 October 12 2005, 04:28:52 UTC

Fixer-uppers.. I am intrigued. So as a guy who does not falsify, I am fixed? Whoa. I never really see the popular ones as the ones with problems. How many assholes have looked at a knife as a way of relieving their problems? How many shitheads park their Jettas next to daddy's BMW and go to their rooms and stare at the knife for hours ( ... )

schlecht_affe October 12 2005, 04:09:55 UTC

Yeah David, life sucks sometimes. I admit that I am not nearly as nice as you, but I consider myself still a relatively nice guy and have been called one before, so I am in a similar boat. I don’t get it either. I see nice girls all the time and they seem to go out with the worst guys. The guys are not only assholes, but they are also generally not the smartest people as well. It is kind of a shame. Here there are these assholes that don’t deserve shit and they get these great girls and then people like us get left with no one. It is like; we are nice to them so we instantly become not an option. Then when it does not work out with some guy they either go out with or like, they go on about all these things that they were sick of, and then they go out and fall for another ass. Pisses me off so much. I’m just hoping that in the long run it pays off, but I don’t know… Damn you David, you got me depressed.

nyuki_1 October 12 2005, 04:14:05 UTC

I dont think of it as depression, more aptly I call it "overcome by reality". the best part is, they all started out nice, and put it on to get girls. Case in point, junior skater/weed head Conner Frazier. I've known him since I was 6. He acts like an asshole just like the rest of them, but he really is a decent guy.

schlecht_affe October 12 2005, 04:17:16 UTC

I am going to guess that you have an account on MSN or AIM, so could you please give me the address or screen name inteh case of AIM?

nyuki_1 October 12 2005, 04:30:47 UTC

my AIM is SenAldeton.. though if I'm on it it's a cold breezy day here in hell.

I might get a new one for graduation.. I'd like to stay friends with all of you as you go off to your various colleges.

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master_of_death October 12 2005, 04:32:09 UTC

I feel totally in the same boat. and to quote Lauren:

"Tom, seriously, you kick so much ass but the thing is, you're a nice guy. You don't appeal the majority of girls because you don't appeal to their emotional masochism. I wish I could claim I was kidding on that one but know that the girl you get will be a good one. Only intelligent girls have found the wonders of the nice guy. I'm sorry you're having so much trouble though and it confuses me that you are. oh well. Women are odd aren't we?"

And standards are good. I probably could've had another girl friend or two if they were lower, but looking back I'm glad I did jack shit about those.

nyuki_1 October 12 2005, 04:52:08 UTC

See around me in my life are a bunch of sexually repressed nice guys. This is a bad, bad mixture o_O. When a sexually repressed asshole snaps he rapes the closest female around.. when a sexually repressed nice guy snaps, do we rape ourselves? or maybe just outright die ( ... )

master_of_death October 12 2005, 05:06:01 UTC

Good luck, and show that bitch up.

finnbarr October 15 2005, 11:22:36 UTC

"when a sexually repressed nice guy snaps, do we rape ourselves?"

Probably a lot worse. The people you don't expect to be anything are the ones capable of the most.. I know I can easily see myself finally going over the edge and stabbing someone repeatedly while cackling like a madman. And I know I've also hidden knives from myself for planning it out far too intensely in my head. I really don't think there's a limit to the horrors any of us can do to another person, even the best of us.. it's not as though Hitler and Gandhi were on different wavelengths, just different parts of the same one, which we all lie on.

So, probably rape, torture, horrific mutilation, prolonged murder. Rinse. Repeat. Or maybe just gunning down some people. Hard to say, but it could be bad.

syring_monkey October 12 2005, 16:46:46 UTC

Yeah David I totally agree with you in all respects. Lifes a bitch, bitches are bitches, the world keeps turning and here we all are. I myself like to think that I'm a very giving person, that I do everything I possible can for people, and that I've given them alot to work with. *not paying attention to teacher who is talking right now*. Keep with the nice, love the love, just say screw off to the bastards and keep going. Theres someone out there for everyone. Your a smart guy you'll figure something out soon.

finnbarr October 13 2005, 05:14:35 UTC

Life sucks, and people suck ( ... )